How To Make Women Approach You???

Mr_MRAnarchist · 2017-12-13T13:49:51+00:00

Huge load of crap. This only works if you follow rule number 1.

1) Be attractive. 2) Don't be unattractive.

Women don't approach normal men. They will chase to the ends of the earth the top men. If you want real women to try to get with you, you need to display your power (in what ever form that takes).

imbecile · 2017-12-13T14:21:06+00:00

I'm a low key dude, and also socially pretty oblivious, so I usually don't notice when girls hit on me to comical degree. Hell, I generally was too dense to notice that the girl showing up at my doorstep and going straight for the bed when I let her in was there for a booty call, probably because even in those situations girls like to have some plausible deniability.

But there were two times in my life when I was verbally asked out for a dinner date in such a direct and straightforward way that even I noticed.

The first time was when I was taking my little brother out for a steak right after I gave him a lift to the DMV to pick up his driver's license. It was also the first time I was back home after starting my first job in a different state. So we talked a lot over the steak in an mostly empty and quiet restaurant, and we also talked about how much I was making. And when we were leaving the waitress basically insisted that I need to pay her a visit the weekend I was there, where she would make me a real steak dinner.

The second time was after a long term office intern at the company I was working at finished her business degree, and was taking a full time job there and took over the payroll handling, i.e. she was handling my paychecks now, and within a week or so she invited me to a dinner date at one of the fanciest restaurants in town.

ExpendableOne · 2017-12-13T15:49:03+00:00

So, even if any of this actually worked and women actually did make the first moves(you could do all those things and they realistically still wouldn't)... this is basically just "put in all the prep work so that what women still don't have to put in any effort, take any risks or take charge in any way". It's not actually addressing the problem at all, it's just catering to the same old double-standards and romantic expectations on men. Funny how women don't have to dance(sucks for you if you don't like dancing), be creative, have perfect body language, give men openings, dress well, have "witty bios" or even ben nice to men to have men approach them or be very successful in dating.

splodgenessabounds · 2017-12-13T14:17:54+00:00

I've found a grapnel and a retractable rope works quite well...

Title	How To Make Women Approach You???
Author	laly86
Upvotes	2
Comments	24
Date	December 13, 2017 1:24 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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