LTR is out of town and wants to explore her bisexuality.

vandaalen · 2017-11-07T09:41:08+00:00

Oneitis, LDR and gf asking for permission to cheat, which she already did anyways, and you are asking, what to do?

Whatbdo you expect to be told here? Do you expect validation to be a chump?

tenxs · 2017-11-10T05:51:41+00:00

A LDR is not a consideration with a redpill mindset. You might as well not have a GF.
If she is asking about fucking other people, she is already doing it.

Decide what works for you: non-exclusive LDR or no relationship at all. Act accordingly.

McVaghunter · 2017-11-07T09:49:03+00:00

LTR is away for a few months = LTR is fucking chads for a few months.

Why would any of this catch you off guard? She's doing what any sane person would do in a LDR.
Same for you I assume, you were fucking lots of girls during these months unlike a bluepilled retarded cuck who would blow his youth away spending many sexless months alone with his dick in his hand while his unicorn is out of town exploring her sexuality.

FatGirlsInPartyHats · 2017-11-07T10:07:34+00:00

Break up with her.

[deleted] · 2017-11-07T09:24:41+00:00

Demote your LTR to cybersexting plate bro.

Regardless of her asking for your permission, you don't know really what's happening over there, things could escalate and the other female could easily invite a man along and have your LTR on all fours. Plus sleeping with females is also cheating in a LTR.

I told her "No, Unless I'm there having a threesome" and "If you have a girl, Then i get one or we share". If you can't prepare a threesome with her involved don't bother asking her for scraps.

"I want her to be exclusively mine (yeah i know)." No, you don't know, its was just your turn, now its going to be Samantha's turn, Amanda's turn then Jane's turn and after a few drinks it's going to be chad's turn.

Read the sidebar and don't spin cyberplates.

[deleted] · 2017-11-07T08:27:43+00:00

Why the fuck are you in a long distance relationship? you should check out this subreddit called theredpill you might learn a couple things

[deleted] · 2017-11-07T10:13:11+00:00

JinSantosAndria · 2017-11-07T09:37:15+00:00

Relationships and distances do not go hand-in-hand. You can have one, but not both. As you already said, AWALT to its full extend, meaning "away for a few months" means a new sexual partner because no one wants to go dry for a few months. It will happen, because it has to.

MattyAnon · 2017-11-07T14:17:50+00:00

My LTR is away for a few months

To be honest it caught me completely off gaurd

I want her to be exclusively mine

You know what the deal is. You know how this works. Why are you even asking?

Do I tell her I changed my mind and that I have changed my boundaries or just continue on and get plates spinning, or maybe even next her for bringing it up?

She's away. That means she is single. You might as well be too.

Whatever you do with this girl, see other women meanwhile. After all, she is.

AlphaGrad · 2017-11-07T15:52:16+00:00

Time to "next".

mams1724 · 2017-11-07T17:50:05+00:00

I appreciate the truth guys. I wouldn't lie to my best friend if I was on the other side of the coin. I guess I had oneitits even though I thought I didn't goes to show that I can fall easily back to the BP. I'll be working on that as well, and nexting her of course.

mcr00sterdota · 2017-11-07T11:15:50+00:00

Dude you need to next hard.

omega_dawg93 · 2017-11-07T14:02:12+00:00

mate guarding? that's a no-no.

bad move dude: "let a whore be a whore."

encourage that behavior... let her be who she is. don't judge, criticize, or demonize.

In the meantime, move on to someone more stable. when or if she comes around, tell her, "pix... or your bisexual romps didn't happen," and smile.

then tell her "3-somes are the norm or the chance for a meaningful, serious relationship are dead."

if u can pull this off, you're almost her pimp. almost. lol.

hawkeaglejesus · 2017-11-07T16:38:08+00:00

If you walked up to your boss and asked, "Hey boss, is it alright if I steal from the company?" would they entertain the question or simply fire you for even bringing it up?

Odds are her asking is just a formality so she won't feel guilty. She's probably gonna do it anyway. How would you know if she didn't? How would you even know if the other "woman" isn't actually a dude?

pm_me_chuck_hagel · 2017-11-07T18:37:35+00:00

If you are in an exclusive relationship, and your partner asks to stop being exclusive, even for a short amount of time, with severe restrictions or whatever, you are no longer in an exclusive relationship and can never go back.

I bet she's already done something with someone. You should have known this would happen the moment she went away, and taken appropriate action.

shady_nasty_mf · 2017-11-07T21:53:27+00:00

Here's how the 3sum is going to play out. Your snowflake is going to get it on with a girlfriend, this girl is going to have her own bf or a male friend and they both suck and ride this cock until he nuts in both their holes. Meanwhile OP is 3000 miles away hoping his snowflake is doing alright.

DeepRedTomato · 2017-11-07T23:42:49+00:00

Lol u are getting cheated on. Exercise your power to leave.

[deleted] · 2017-11-07T12:50:34+00:00

Next her, beta phaggot.

Ninokun · 2017-11-07T13:38:57+00:00

U dont want a sexual deviant for a longterm Relationship. Every woman tht is openly Bi sexual is Garbage. Those Women are for Sex only. great if u can do some threesomes but a Slut like that will never be loyal.

either u subscribe to the lifestyle of living with a homely girl who cooks ur dinner and gives u a backrub after ur hard day of working. her Hobbies would be gardening, knitting or some shit or u dont.

saves a lot of Heartbreak. dont try to wife up Sluts. dont interact with them at all besides Sex.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-11-07T18:29:06+00:00

Fuck her via wifi

7Fig · 2017-11-07T22:56:01+00:00

I don't mean to give you tough love but LDRs are a total waste of time. You're jerking off in front of a computer screen in hopes that she will fuck you "when she returns". The trick about all of this is she has no reason to desire you. You're so available you're willing to show up on skype and whip your dick out anytime anywhere.

You should be out closing real ass. Deep down you know this, but you don't want to let go of something that was already working.

Cut her loose and if she ever comes back she'll want to shag your brains out, but only if you cut her loose.

iLookAtNaughtyStuff · 2017-11-08T01:40:48+00:00

Tell her you're at home and you want to explore your sexuality with multiple women.

nofilmynofucky · 2017-11-08T02:23:19+00:00

There's no such thing as an LDR, if she asked it just means she's already cheated

[deleted] · 2017-11-08T02:30:08+00:00

If this wasn't a thing you were ready cool with then you are done. Acknowledge it or not.

[deleted] · 2017-11-07T10:55:53+00:00

Queer

Alex24d · 2017-11-07T13:40:04+00:00

Not the first time I'm seeing it here but what the fuck, do you really think it's ok for you to have sex with other people while the same thing is not ok for her? Am I missing something here?

Title	LTR is out of town and wants to explore her bisexuality.
Author	mams1724
Upvotes	16
Comments	40
Date	November 7, 2017 8:21 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7bbvl5/ltr_is_out_of_town_and_wants_to_explore_her/
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