Man sends date invoice after being ghosted

MarcoVincenzo · 2018-04-17T01:02:05+00:00

$40 per person is not cheap. If she isn't interested in pursuing the relationship, fine, but she should pick up her share of the learning experience.

fengpi · 2018-04-17T00:23:03+00:00

“Cracks me up how people instantly are like, ‘well why didn’t YOU text him back??? You just wanted a free meal??’ YOU AS A WOMAN ARE NOT OBLIGATED TO GIVE A MAN ANYTHING IN EXCHANGE FOR A CHEAP DINNER,” she argued.

That she is entitled to a free meal goes without saying. And since it was "cheap," that does not mean it was therefore easy for her to afford and that she is petty for not paying a cent, but that it was a lousy meal because, as a woman, she is entitled to an expensive meal and only then the man might (might!) be worthy of a future meeting if princess wills it. QED.

Never deny the ladies their free shit, you ungallant Neanderthals. Men should be perpetual chumps, deserving of nothing and picking up the tabs-- with a big smile, without any sarcastic invoices-- while women can be children forever! Wheeeeeeeeee!

I'm actually kind of surprised that she didn't pull-out the wage gap canard as well. "I make 75% of what he does (maybe, I assume) therefore I should pay zero, because everyone knows that 75% = fucking zero through the magic of Empowered Freeloading Grrrrl-Pwr Logic. Suck it boys! WHOOT!"

boringcarpets · 2018-04-17T06:59:59+00:00

Any man who pays for it is a mug. White knights who fall for that so-called "gallantry" of "the man pays" is a doormat. Women will always be feeble children as long as people keep treating them as such - they're perfectly capable of paying, help them achieve equality

mikesteane · 2018-04-17T01:03:48+00:00

Never pay for a woman's company unless you think her time is more valuable than yours, in which case she probably agrees.

Serojin · 2018-04-17T10:03:46+00:00

I love how this article accidentally an entire word.

When one Indiana man’s dating experience went badly, he didn’t an explanation. He wanted to be reimbursed.

Rainman99999 · 2018-04-17T07:43:09+00:00

No it's not petty to send the bill. It's not cheap. Women want equality but not the responsibility? Men can't afford to pay for every darn date. Mind you I don't bother "dating" I don't think most women in my city are worth my time.

Regnes · 2018-04-17T17:52:17+00:00

She shouldn't be obligated to continue the relationship or even explain why she doesn't want to continue. Though, she just completely misses the point. Ghosting somebody you've never met in person is one thing, doing it to somebody that has actually committed their time and money to you is just needlessly cruel and quite frankly is emotionally abusive.

A quick and simple "I'm sorry, I'm not interested" text would have been appropriate. Bullet to the head, instead of the slow and agonizing alternative.

Her logic is that because she doesn't owe him anything, she is justified in treating men like garbage.

holader · 2018-04-17T10:07:25+00:00

Your own fault, sucker!

SSFW3925 · 2018-04-17T13:49:09+00:00

Women can sue if a man “ghosted” her wedding so why not dating?

Title	Man sends date invoice after being ghosted
Author	beers-and-bratwurst
Upvotes	68
Comments	21
Date	April 17, 2018 12:18 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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