About “Not all men“!!

spinsterchachkies · 2021-03-20T20:05:07+00:00

I like “Fuck your feelings” lol 😂

InaneObservations · 2021-03-20T21:00:26+00:00

Guys who jump into discussions about violence against women with "Not all men" aren't just trying to defend themselves, they're trying to defend the creep who did it by drowning out the woman who stood up and said something.

If you were really a "Not All Man," you'd be on the woman's side, calling out the other "Yes That Man" guys. But if you're jumping in to circle your wagons around the creep, then fuck you. You're just as bad.

sahu_ · 2021-03-20T18:34:51+00:00

Read this quote somewhere, thought it applies here - "Feminism is the radical idea that women's safety is more important than men's feelings!"

Sekina7 · 2021-03-20T21:35:22+00:00

“Not all LANDMINES” 🙄

deep_faked_beans · 2021-03-20T21:36:29+00:00

This is a really good post, and when you think about it, after years of having the plastic screens up they probably did protect the taxi driver from a violent customer at least once. Just like all women's precautions have probably protected us from assault/rape at least once, but men want to get rid of that. They'd prefer it if we were attacked once rather than risk offending multiple men.

cheesymacaroony · 2021-03-21T02:27:42+00:00

They say “Not All Men” as a cope They are complicit

Every single good guy has stood around and allowed a woman to be belittled dehumanised or harassed for entertainment.

No exceptions. Harassers exist side by side with WEAK men.

oddcharm · 2021-03-21T00:35:31+00:00

They know.

anonymous_monkey2 · 2021-03-21T08:41:17+00:00

The time I experienced this kind of guy in real life, I lived with him. He would be butting into conversations me and the girl had (between us, mind you) to aggressively cut us off about how he hates generalisations because "I'M not like that!"

Turns out it's because he was an abuser/perpetrator of rape himself, and he IS like that. They're just defending themselves, they are never bragging that they are actually good. He was obviously extreme, but the rest are defending themselves because maybe they've colluded, maybe they've told rape jokes, maybe wouldn't actually call a man out.

Yes not all men...but you're definitely one of the bad ones.

Davina33 · 2021-03-20T23:05:29+00:00

Love this!

2021-03-21T14:05:30+00:00

Is this a backlash to women being safer because we’re perceived as a sort of public property? Like how fascism is a backlash against progress, this need for control of the narrative seems to oppose women’s autonomy by invalidating our lived experiences.

Title	About “Not all men“!!
Author	a_room_of_my_own3
Upvotes	964
Comments	11
Date	March 20, 2021 6:29 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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