Bros, how do I deal with the fact that people might be scared of me?

EvilLothar · 2020-09-28T18:01:51+00:00

I don't understand why so many men feel like it's their problems what women feel, even though they have done nothing to create the situation... like, fucking stop apologizing for existing... stand up for yourself and make them take responsibility for their own feelings.

Clockw0rk · 2020-09-29T00:22:55+00:00

This is obviously completely rational and reasonable

No it's not. If his sister and female friends are constantly on alert whenever a man is in the vicinity, they've got unresolved issues that need addressing. Primarily through a therapist.

alclarkey · 2020-09-28T20:53:17+00:00

Fuck em. If you're not being aggressive and you're not scowling at people, they can go piss up a rope, just go about your business like they aren't there.

88mmAce · 2020-09-29T00:25:17+00:00

The feelings of others are not on you. If they’re scared of you because you walk down the same side of the road, it’s their problem. Live your life, man

d_nijmegen · 2020-09-28T17:12:10+00:00

I'm getting really frustrated with the suppression of male positive self image.

It seems we're only allowed to adapt to other people's perception. Not changing peoples perception of us while we're being ourself.

AngryTails · 2020-09-28T21:20:42+00:00

You aren't responsible for how someone else feels about your presence unless you are physically being a problem. Half the problem of women being freaked out by men is that women are telling each other that they should be.

Ody_ssey · 2020-09-28T18:16:34+00:00

That sub is full of incels. They are blaming themselves for other's prejudice. All because they think fixing other's prejudice will reward them with sex points.

darkbluexanadu · 2020-09-29T12:12:40+00:00

Lions and tigers and bears oh my....none of these apologize for their existance. If youve done nothing other than being you then fuck'em. Let'em eat fish heads. They can have their paranoia, and you can laugh at them for being that way.

newhopefortarget · 2020-09-30T07:24:08+00:00

So this is cross posted for commentary? Yeah, OP is a major faggot, and the solution is to not be such a faggot. Duh.

d_nijmegen · 2020-09-30T15:42:24+00:00

Here's what I want to go post.

You're black. It's completely understandable why women would be afraid of you. Do the best you can to make them comfortable. Cross the street if you see them on the same side as you, etc...

Do you find that racist? Then talking to men that way is equally sexist. Is it not so bad to be this sexist/racist? Or is it unacceptable?

iainmf · 2020-09-28T17:25:35+00:00

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Bros, how do I deal with the fact that people might be scared of me?

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Title	Bros, how do I deal with the fact that people might be scared of me?
Author	d_nijmegen
Upvotes	17
Comments	37
Date	September 28, 2020 5:09 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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