My redpill induced misogyny led my ex to leave me, and rightfully so.

Ashleythemaneater · 2023-04-05T04:03:47+00:00

I am glad you are here as well. 🙂

curiousmind_82 · 2023-04-05T04:43:06+00:00

You are very welcome. May you find all the love and non-judgmental support you need.

fiveXdollars · 2023-04-05T06:52:39+00:00

Sending love your way, and I'm proud that your taking this as a learning opportunity rather than an event to reinforce that negative mindset. Keep it up!

Lemoineau11 · 2023-04-05T07:56:05+00:00

The best part is, you are now fully ready for new relationships. You'll get through the pain eventually don't worry since now you are improving drastically

-AlwaysBored- · 2023-04-05T10:20:23+00:00

Very proud of you man! Its hard admitting things like this. Im sure this was a painful wake up call, but it beats sinking so far into redpill that you can never form meaningful connections with women again. Bring free from this hate is the best thing that you could have done and I promise you that its gonna get better. Wishing you the best :)

LevelUp91 · 2023-04-05T12:58:08+00:00

Good for you! It does suck that we normally have to learn things the hard way, but if you find yourself sliding back into redpill ideology, I think one question you should ask yourself is, “Did anything I did or said back then make my life better or happier?”

larry_tron · 2023-04-05T10:05:36+00:00

Hey respect to you for recognising the faults in your behaviour and I hope you can rebuild, learn from the experience and develop better relationships in the future

Take comfort in the fact that you've just done the one thing that the entire manosphere refuses to do, and that's taking ownership of your own bad behaviour without blaming other people

We're not perfect, and we were never meant to be; but we have the power to grow as better people from our mistakes

buzluu · 2023-04-05T12:10:53+00:00

Welcome bro,or girl

impressablenomad38 · 2023-04-05T11:05:33+00:00

You got this king 😎 you're on the way to a healthier, happier life and you deserve to be loved.

LittleCookie3 · 2023-04-05T20:46:56+00:00

Do you think there's anything your ex could've said/done to snap you out of the redpill mindset? Or was leaving you the only way?

Thrrowjane · 2023-04-06T04:59:23+00:00

Welcome back to the mundane (no seriously, relationships are some mundane, simple things...but it is also best that way) but way less drama (the dread, bait and switch, etc oh my!) led life.

Take it easy and just try to learn from the experience. Many people fall to different kinds of cultish stuffs in their lifetime.

panita389 · 2023-04-18T03:20:15+00:00

I appreciate you doing this! I left my ex for a similar reason. But if he did all the the work you were doing I'd very definitely consider going back.

Sadly, I don't think 'losing me' made him realize he was wrong, I think it just made him feel like he needs someone who's going to back these views and become what he now thinks a partner should be. It's nice to see that for some people it actually made life better.

pssiraj · 2023-04-06T01:54:26+00:00

There's always the option to send her an open ended apology and make it clear you're not expecting anything, even a reply. If you think it'll go over well, that is. Some people like knowing others aren't assholes anymore and won't be damaging others down the road at least in the same way.

risen-098 · 2023-04-06T17:59:59+00:00

hi. im glad ur leaving red pill. i feel bad that ur suffering right now, though, and that it alienated u from a loved one. i suppose my hope is that after some deprogramming and then just getting into other things u'll actually enjoy, you'll find someone new or who knows what the future holds, right? u can reach out to me if u want to talk.

Edge-Flimsy · 2023-04-29T12:54:24+00:00

red pill has nothing to do with misoginy

Kurenai_i · 2023-05-05T22:48:59+00:00

You know what , you're doing amazing . And this is the best thing you could do now . More power to you

Title	My redpill induced misogyny led my ex to leave me, and rightfully so.
Author	westcoastwabbit
Upvotes	74
Comments	53
Date	April 5, 2023 3:06 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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