I like my job (culinary) but girls hate it

bluepillcarl · 2018-01-06T00:04:42+00:00

Don't let that bullshit get you down. Bitches will cheat on a hedge fund manager making millions of dollars a year with the fucking pool boy. Turn it around and what you find is that a lot of girls who will be first to criticize your occupation are going nowhere in life and don't have much except for quick depreciating looks. Do what you love to do and own it.

chazthundergut · 2018-01-06T00:37:16+00:00

If you are passionate about cooking and you enjoy going to work, then fuck those bitches.

My guess is there is a bigger fundamental problem, and girls latch onto your "dead-end job" as an excuse.

For example, you are too needy with them. You are the one pushing for more commitment. You are too open with them and too validation-seeking. Maybe you're not dominant enough, or too available, or you're not fucking them good enough during sex. Also, the way you communicate matters. If you admit that you work as a cook in a sort of "I hope you're okay with this" attitude, they will test you on it every time. If you love what you do and own it, and let that shine through when you tell them (and don't tell them as if looking for their approval) then it will not be an issue.

Trust me, being a cook is NO obstacle to getting with attractive women. Especially if it's something you are happy to get up for every morning.

So look for the problem elsewhere. Find out what the real issue is.

zenplus · 2018-01-05T22:23:20+00:00

All of this displays you are content with being a low-level drone with no passion or drive.

Why are you discussing occupations with girls anyway? Don't be a drone..tell her you work for the CIA, that you're an exotic dancer, a yogi.

Be attractive, don't be unattractive. Create emotions in girls. Doesn't even matter if they're good or bad emotions... the killer is boredom. If she can't get her feelings fix from you, she'll be looking for the next.

You really have no goals? No dreams? Willing to work min. wage because you like the work? Have any future plans where having money might be beneficial to you? do you have an exit plan? Or will you be ok as a resentful broke 40yo still washing dishes realizing all your coworkers are in their early 20's?

akara8 · 2018-01-05T22:35:15+00:00

Obviously cooking is something you’re passionate about and it’s an excellent skill to have if you can do it well. Cooking for females is a great SMV boost and you can do it from the comfort of your own home. Cook for a plate/date, be passionate about why you enjoy it so much and your conversations should flow from there

[deleted] · 2018-01-06T01:29:54+00:00

Your mission and passions > girls

nikELBroke · 2018-01-06T01:20:32+00:00

If you love what you’re doing.. keep doing it. If you find someone worthy, you’ll get the support from them. You should’nt change yourself or what you really enjoy because others don’t like it ...

[deleted] · 2018-01-06T02:07:15+00:00

You aren't attractive enough if they give a shit about what you do for a living. They want to put you in the beta bucket.

[deleted] · 2018-01-06T07:24:35+00:00

The issue isn't your job, but your frame. All of the greatest chefs in the world are men; do you think Gordon Ramsay gives a fuck about some bitch laughing at him for baking a pie?

1Pink1Stink · 2018-01-06T08:11:01+00:00

So you're saying that you don't fit into their provider standards? Good.

RP_78 · 2018-01-06T11:30:37+00:00

Are you kidding me? 😄 Here cooking is super popular, also due to cooking shows and celebrity chefs... you should consider Europe 😉

PreOrgasmGroanLness · 2018-01-06T14:28:31+00:00

Don't talk about your job. Just mention in in one, two sentences and have another sentence ready to change topic.

kankouillotte · 2018-01-06T17:36:08+00:00

you're finding the wrong bitches. I know several who would love a cook

redd_reality · 2018-01-06T00:46:51+00:00

Bro, if you like what you do each day, you're doing exactly wtf you should be doing.

Any woman that wants you for anything other than how you make her feel in the moment (tingles) considers you a beta provider.

As a stem professional, I never tell girls what I do until we're on our first date and I can tell she is into me for my attractiveness, game etc.

Title	I like my job (culinary) but girls hate it
Author	zenplus
Upvotes	15
Comments	26
Date	January 5, 2018 9:58 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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