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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Emotional availabilityBPD = bi polar or borderline? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/18 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Using meetup.com to meet girlsWhat groups have you had good luck with? | /r/seduction | 01/05/18 01:03 AM |
| 2 | How does the dating market differ from between a 35 y.o. male and a 40 y.o.?That is what I fear. But I'm sure you've heard of the "divide by 2 then add 7" for dating age. A 40 year old guy and a 27 yo female would be okay with this rule. What do you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 01:02 AM |
| 1 | How does the dating market differ from between a 35 y.o. male and a 40 y.o.?That's my question u/concacanca . I genuinely don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 12:46 AM |
| 0 | Men vs Women: Frugality/Thriftyness/"Cheapskate"Check out r/leanfire, there are plenty of people making 50k and saving 50% of their income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/18 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Men vs Women: Frugality/Thriftyness/"Cheapskate"I don't doubt it happens but for whatever reason my social circle doensn't include people who are into fancy cars | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/18 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Men vs Women: Frugality/Thriftyness/"Cheapskate"yo! check out r/financialindependence and r/leanfire Obviously the stereotype is a techy, but there are people making much less doing it. No, being "cheap" is not often a luxury. No help = no spouse or help from parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/18 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Are a good portion of women asexual?Me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/18 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: How important is money/career success in dating 30+?What do you mean by none of it matters? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/18 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Anyone do a bootcamp?actually it is! please do tell why | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 02:25 AM |
| 1 | At 32, am I too old for college bars?good to hear someone has had some luck. Can you give me some pointers? | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (11 March 2018)Not sure if this is the right place to post this but here goes: Is there any way we could do a day or so of race-based topics? We're missing out on a huge topic here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/18 01:45 PM |
| 2 | I am a guy who’s 21 and doesn’t have his shit togetherUm this subreddit isn't "Ask PPD for dating advice"... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/18 07:20 AM |
| 1 | The year is 2018. What's the status on the "three date rule"?eh I can see why it may seem that way (you're reading a post on reddit afterall) but I don't think so. My friend's game is pretty good. I think she is just shy/conservative. Plus he's looking for something really serious so getting laid immediately isn't the biggest priority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/18 09:15 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Regarding Looks/Money/Status/Game paradigm, money+status are relatively minor factorsWell I'd say the "smart" people i know all have nerdy interests, are too analytical, etc. Things that can really hurt you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/18 06:33 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Regarding Looks/Money/Status/Game paradigm, money+status are relatively minor factorsBut it seems the majority of women I know are married by late 20s... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/18 06:20 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Regarding Looks/Money/Status/Game paradigm, money+status are relatively minor factorsYou really think smarts helps you? What about all those STEM grads who complain about their sex life? I think very frequently smarts hurts you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Regarding Looks/Money/Status/Game paradigm, money+status are relatively minor factorsSES? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/18 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: What's Tinder like for you and your social circle?What is OLD? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/18 04:42 PM |
| 5 | What are some PUA companies besides RSD?Well I joined the "inner circle RSD fb group for my city and its like a cult there. Some guys told me theyd spend every evening watching for hours their YT content. Many were going to the event so I decided to go to. I was hoping to get some sort of information/knowledge out of it. Instead, it was their stupid in field footage of talking to drunk girls. Did not find helpful at all. I mean if it was $15 I'd do it just to get out of the house but it was a large chunk of cash, like $300 or $500. Ty… | /r/seduction | 01/03/18 08:19 PM |
| 5 | What are some PUA companies besides RSD?I like him more than the other ones but he's a VERY VERY good looking guy. In some of his videos you notice he doesnt even have to game that hard. Girls are immediately attracted to him. | /r/seduction | 01/03/18 08:13 PM |
| 8 | What are some PUA companies besides RSD?Honestly those videos are super long winded...a 45 minute video could easily be written into a few paragraphs. I don't watch their videos anymore because they payoff value is so low. A lot of them aren't good advice, they're "priming" you for a purchase...I notice some of them are very clickbaity too Never buy anything from RSD. Don't take my word for it read their reviews. I feel like such a chump, bought their hotseat and tyler himself did it. Useless waste of afternoon, I think it was like $5… | /r/seduction | 01/03/18 08:07 PM |
| 2 | "Thirsty"/horny guys dedicating their youth to getting laidmy bad if i was confusing. crackrockstead7 is correct. he barely got laid in undergrad, now he's getting laid like crazy in his phd program | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/18 06:48 PM |
| 15 | My dates are awfulGo to coffee shop or a bar. If bar, try to get drunk quickly because I'm nervous. Try to brag. Tell cool stories. | /r/seduction | 01/03/18 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Women dating assholeshey man this is not meant to be clickbait and I'm not redpill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/18 03:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Becoming a doctor is not a slam dunk for your dating lifeI really disagree with you. I've been to multiple med school parties (from friends). My brother is a doctor. A lot of med school students have below average social skills. "Party hard"? So what if you drink...that doesnt make you cool... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/18 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Is eccentricity a net positive or negative for a man in the dating market?Could you give examples of interesing quirks that are super hot? Not sure what you mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/18 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Do most men strive to be good in bed?I'm a little confused by your response. What type of guy exists but you've never met them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Mark Manson's old PUA postsNo I mean his old PUA articles from his blog and practicalpickup.com | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Do you write field reports?So how do you write your workout journal? Is it an app for your phone or a real journal or something else? | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Dropped $300 on RSD's "The Natural". Is it any good?What courses do you recommend? (besides text machine) | /r/seduction | 01/02/18 05:38 AM |
| 4 | Dropped $300 on RSD's "The Natural". Is it any good?I'm against pirating quality content. I mean how do you expect it to be created for free? Sorry to hear about your bad bootcamp experience though. | /r/seduction | 01/02/18 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Wearing elevator shoes for average height man?no why do you ask? do you think the other guy is autistic? | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 04:49 AM |
| -3 | Wearing elevator shoes for average height man?haha i know that guy was an idiot | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 04:47 AM |
| -9 | Wearing elevator shoes for average height man?bye cuck | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 04:36 AM |
| -9 | Wearing elevator shoes for average height man?lol why are you trying to talk tough? this is pathetic | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 04:33 AM |
| -17 | Wearing elevator shoes for average height man?you're a moron | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Developing a sense of humorInteresting idea. | /r/seduction | 10/01/18 01:58 AM |
| 3 | I disagree with TRP's "Lift bro!" mentality. Debate me.Your math is way off. What about sleep, job and commute? 8 hours sleep, 2 hours commuting plus 8 hours working leaves only 6 hours of free time. Minus other chores, and lifting for an hour every other day could mean 25% of your free time. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 03:01 AM |
| 1 | I like my job (culinary) but girls hate itI def want a LTR. So do I really not have another option than get a more prestigious job? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 10:45 PM |
| 5 | I like my job (culinary) but girls hate itI def see what you're saying. In my defense I have a definite plan, At 45 I plan on paying off the mortgage early, so that the bulk of the rental revenue will go to me (wont have mortgage expenses anymore.) I don't know. I mean I worked 6 years as accountant and hated office work. Made me feel broken. So yeah I know it sounds weird but yeah I feel pretty good making the choice I am today. The saying "Do what you love and you never work a day in your life" is definitely true. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 10:29 PM |
| 0 | I disagree with TRP's "Lift bro!" mentality. Debate me.Fine. I guess my question is, where is my thinking wrong? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 09:36 PM |
| 1 | How much does going to the gym matter?But what if you put all that effort into approaching or a new hobby that yoy enjoy much more? | /r/seduction | 05/01/18 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Men 30+, how do you approach?interesting! So in the clubs you just do a normal approach? When girls learn you're 40+ how do they react? | /r/seduction | 05/01/18 01:54 AM |
| 3 | Men 30+, how do you approach?how are you meeting 32 year olds? | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Asian Male Dating Apocalypse (30+)I have to really disagree with you there. I did an experiment and sent a message to about a dozen average white girls. not a single one responded! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/17 10:28 PM |
| 3 | TRP's Men age like wine, women age like milkI'm saying the women still have plenty of suitors and can be picky how old their dating partners are. Yes, they're definitely not as good. All the good ones settled down earlier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/17 09:55 PM |
| 5 | TRP's Men age like wine, women age like milkI don't have a hard time understanding, it' s just that I don't think it's true. I'm using my friend's experience. You're all theory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/17 09:46 PM |
| 1 | A week to travelI say this sadly...not close enough to warrant me seeing them...it would feel awkward to me. All of my friends I keep up with are in my city. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/15 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Getting through lack of success / not results orientedSent you a PM. | /r/seduction | 04/09/15 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Harsh Truth Revealed - Biggest problem I have is that I look very unmasculineDon't wear branded clothing? Only buy custom tailored? You sound really successful. But most people I know (late 20s, early 30s) are hitting up Nordstorm, Express, Hugo Boss (maybe for a few shirts) | /r/askTRP | 22/07/15 08:44 PM |
| 1 | No friendsGood post, and would like to heavily emphasize point 1. Try going 3 times a week to meetup. Some of the groups are full of socially awkward people but the regular ones around an interest are gold. For example, one of the ones based around my ethnicity has been paying massive dividends for social circle and dates. I consider myself to be an expert at meetup. After the event just message the person on the meetup.com site. Obviously if they're on meetup they're looking to meet people so 4/5 times t… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/15 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Harsh Truth Revealed - Biggest problem I have is that I look very unmasculineHe said he wore banana republic. My guess is though he has a "thin frame" (which is why the muscles don't show when he is wearing a shirt). OP, have you tried "slim fitting "shirts? | /r/askTRP | 22/07/15 08:16 PM |
| 0 | Being a male gold diggerIf its ok for women to marry for money, why can't men? I know I can't get a smart and attractive girl. Why not get one that also has a lot of money? | /r/askTRP | 22/07/15 02:52 PM |
| 0 | What income levels are associated with low/medium/high smv?Nope. But the car I bought was used - it's a great way to save $$$ for travel | /r/askTRP | 23/06/15 01:53 PM |
| 0 | What income levels are associated with low/medium/high smv?Right - girls really don't know anything about cars. I think it's a good argument to get a used luxury, 30k millionaire style. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/15 01:39 PM |
| 1 | What income levels are associated with low/medium/high smv?Well...what is considered "high SMV"? Top 15-20%? Able to get in an LTR with an 8-9? Would a 3 series be considered "enough"? You're right though - a 3 series is laughed at in certain crowds. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/15 01:38 PM |
| 0 | What income levels are associated with low/medium/high smv?I understand that living costs vary according to the area. But what about your area? Also, the question I'm trying to get is - what is high SMV? Is a BMW 3 series enough to be considered high? I think so, but maybe I'm too low on the ladder to see the big picture. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/15 01:17 PM |
| 0 | What income levels are associated with low/medium/high smv?Half of 250 is 125k. Honestly I would find it difficult to spend this much money! You don't think 10k a month is enough to be high smv? That's enough for a really pimp pad and car. Sure you're not going to be flying to Paris every other week, but that is probably top 5-10%. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/15 11:46 AM |
| 0 | Tips for Monk Mode?good stuff | /r/askTRP | 22/06/15 05:16 AM |
| 0 | Taking 6-12 months off before going to grad school...what should I do?haha i know | /r/askTRP | 16/06/15 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Taking 6-12 months off before going to grad school...what should I do?Your comment is nonsensical. I'm pretty successful for my age. I'm merely brainstorming, looking for ideas. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/15 09:18 AM |
| 0 | At 30, I completely lack motivation for my careerBut I'm not doing a good job. My lack of motivation will persist | /r/askTRP | 11/06/15 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Your thoughts about LASIK?Ehhh... the horror stories make me nervous though. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/15 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Your thoughts about LASIK?Wow. What happened? Why don't you get things fixed? | /r/askTRP | 09/06/15 03:54 PM |
| 1 | What keeps you on the right path?good post | /r/askTRP | 09/06/15 03:17 PM |
| 1 | lost v card to an escort - how to keep my lips sealed?Interesting question - I think you're being a little bit paranoid. I'd probably feel the same way in your situation, which is perfectly fine. Just have a 3-4 sentence story prepared when she asks you which girl you slept with first. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/15 08:04 PM |
| 1 | How does dating in your 30s differ from dating in your 20s?What do you mean by wasted? | /r/askTRP | 07/06/15 05:17 AM |
| 6 | Is a PUA bootcamp worth it?rsd inner circle is a facebook group, they have one for most major cities | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 07:46 PM |
| 4 | Why Short Men And Black Women Are In The Same Boat When It Comes To Online DatingInteresting he didn't include anything about Asian/Indian guys | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/15 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Any experience with being a sugar daddy?Wow. Thank you! Is it almost as satisfying as being in a relationship? | /r/askTRP | 05/05/15 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Insane flakiness on OKC. Tips?I'm trying to get them to go on a coffee date. Online messaging is a tedious and cumbersome way to build rapport. So much is missed because a lack of body language, tonality, etc. | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 01:46 PM |
| 1 | "I like to take things slow" / "I'm picky"- [28 and never had a boyfriend] -> "Lets go to Peru!" (on second date)"People love-bomb when they know they do t have what it takes to last." Please explain. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/15 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Women who like to "take it slow"My game is off. Like really off lol. Long dry spell to say the least. Point taken. | /r/seduction | 19/01/15 02:33 PM |
| 1 | To what extent is aggressiveness / competitiveness / dominance learnable?Thank you for your reply. What would you recommend doing? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 04:56 PM |
| 0 | I have a serious babyface. What can I do?Ripped as in I get 30 pounds, most of it muscle. I ate a ton of food everyday...so much so that it was painful. But in the end if I was wearing the "average fit" shirt it didn't show through. I'm an Asian guy with a skinny frame if that helps you visualize. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 04:33 PM |
| 1 | The power of proper enunciation and voice projectionThat's the thing though - I completely forget. I am completely zoned into my work that I forget anything about enunciating or talking slowly. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 09:08 AM |
| 3 | The power of proper enunciation and voice projectionTwo weeks ago I made it a point to start doing this. It worked for a day or two but then I reverted back to my old behavior. One thing I've found hard is to do this at work. If I'm staring at the computer for several hours and someone asks me a questions, usually I'll be sort of flustered and start talking fast. This is unfortunate as work would benefit most from proper talking. Any ideas for a solution? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Is LASIK worth it?You're right. I do have stylish eyeglasses. I'm just saying LASIK could make things better | /r/seduction | 27/07/14 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Does NLP help?Could you explain "might find it helpful" and "right reasons"? :) | /r/seduction | 08/07/14 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Does NLP help?what are the quicker studies with faster payoff? | /r/seduction | 08/07/14 10:03 AM |
| 2 | I want to improve my social skills as much as possible. Getting laid is a bonus. Night game or day game?Thank you for posting this. I will experiment with sharing my opinion. I'm pretty poor in this area. Regarding making more friends - I'd say it's extremely hard for me to make more friends. All the friends I have now are from college. I've gone to plenty of meetups, drinks with coworkers, etc. The social anxiety is very high in these situations and I am not very entertaining. I come across as very uptight and as a bore. | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 12:44 AM |
| 1 | I want to improve my social skills as much as possible. Getting laid is a bonus. Night game or day game?What do you mean? | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 12:27 AM |
| 3 | I want to improve my social skills as much as possible. Getting laid is a bonus. Night game or day game?I have cool hobbies and I'm very tight with a group of friends (small). I just get really nervous. This is hard to explain to someone who doesn't have anxiety. Have you ever been in a meeting, the conversion shifts to you and you get flustered? Everything is jumbled and your words are meaningless? That's everyday interaction for me. And yes, I am doing toastmasters. | /r/seduction | 06/07/14 05:24 PM |
| 1 | I want to improve my social skills as much as possible. Getting laid is a bonus. Night game or day game?That's the most common advice I've been given. I tried a challenge of talking to as many people as I could. Security guards. Bus drivers. I can get the small talk. "Nice weather we have today.!" Broad smile. But as soon as the conversation isn't fact oriented I'm screwed. I tense up. I shut down. If someone cracks a joke, I get really nervous and can't think of anything to say. Actually thinking about it, therapy might help me more than game. I have a pretty bad sticking point. | /r/seduction | 06/07/14 04:45 PM |
| – | How do you know if you're entitled?LOL why did you downvote me. I guess we are arguing the same thing. Being confident and entitlement is inherently linked. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | How do you know if you're entitled?Guy A walks into club being polite and asking permission to do everything. Guy B knows he's worth a million bucks, he deserves a skank girl. Who do you think does better in an approach? | /r/askTRP | |
| – | How do you know if you're entitled?Interesting you say this. Some of these things are healthy. I think RSD Tyler goes into a talk about this - an entitltement mentality gives you confidence. People will seek approval from you. | /r/askTRP |
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