I find day game terrifying

vitamann · 2018-02-19T22:21:59+00:00

Day game is a whole different monster. But it's worth it.

Learn your approach, that is the key, you have to shake out the "salesman stigma", it takes a while. I think I gotta post about that.

Women are sober and are less likely to flake out when you message them. That's all I do now: day game. I hate noisy clubs and bars.

DrBalance · 2018-02-20T00:40:55+00:00

I'm just starting off myself. How do you open? Do you warm up a bit asking for directions?

It is actually pretty hard even though so many people claim to be good at it. I've never actually seen any of my wingmen go hugely well at it except for once or twice.

I would suggest making it fun somehow, if you're not enjoying yourself then you look like a wierd robot when you approach and stammer something out. Maybe do some challenges/exercises to completely remove the fear. Walk along a busy street and start clapping, rsdmax style. Realise that people stare for 5 seconds then back to their phone. Or just lie down on the middle of the footpath for 90 seconds and don't move until your friend says you can.

AudiblePlasma · 2018-02-20T03:51:16+00:00

I do think it would be way harder. Night game people are cutting loose and having fun usually when they are out. Day game, people got shit to do and places to go.

goldgibbon · 2018-02-20T04:07:31+00:00

What's the difference between night game and day game? What's going on through your head? It sounds like a "in your head" issue.

You mentioned you feel very sketchy. Should you feel sketchy? She's a cute girl, you're single. You know what you're looking for (serious relationship, hookup) and you're confident that you'd be wonderful at what you're looking for. What's sketchy about trying to get her number?

Now, I wouldn't hit on her if she looks like she's in a hurry. But if you're polite, courteous, concise, and make her feel safe. What's sketchy?

Dallas_Stars_Fan · 2018-02-20T01:11:53+00:00

I can definitely relate... My day game is pretty shit and I feel like a creeper at times

GuyFromDaStore · 2018-02-20T02:26:09+00:00

Women are not terrifying. Just don't go around like you're a salesman trying to hand out free samples. The trick to day game is to be natural about it, and be aware of your situation. Its better to hit on a girl at a drugstore while you two are looking at the shelves for vitamins than standing on a streetcorner chasing down girls on their phone.

rmbarnes · 2018-02-20T08:17:15+00:00

Yeah I have the same problem. I think it’s the added social pressure of approaching women in the daytime being more unusual than in a bar or club.

I go through a cycle of trying to crack daygame, making a small amount of progress, giving up, then starting again back at step 1.

So far I’ve had only 3 lays from daygame over the past 5 years, compared to nearly 100 from night game or online game. So I haven’t overcome this problem yet!

Next month I’m going to Kiev for 2 weeks to daygame intensely. I tried it for a week in Prague last year, where I did more sets than usual in a week, but not enough, didn’t get laid. Later in the year, if all goes well financially, I’m going to spend 2 months off work daygaming in Europe. I’m hoping having 8 weeks to do nothing but daygame will finally break the cycle.

zfgee · 2018-02-20T11:05:45+00:00

The problem is in your head. You will find others here who have the exact opposite: fine with day game, scared shitless of night game.
Just DO, DO, DO and you'll get over it.

physicalbitcoin · 2018-02-20T12:20:20+00:00

Buy a Ukulele, musical instrument or another prop. Learn another language.

And it's been like that for 5+ years.

5 years.

If you'd focused on a language, bodybuilding or music you could be a master by now. F**k all this blind approach advice, learn a trade that contributes towards civilization.

mrkyu · 2018-02-20T07:59:18+00:00

I came up with an idea I'm going to be testing today. I've got a camera with me, and I'm going to ask random women to take photos of me.

goldgibbon · 2018-02-20T04:01:39+00:00

Let's do a practice one, right now. Imagine I'm a girl. I look to be about your age. I'm walking alone in the afternoon in the park. I might be single, I might be in a relationship. You don't know. You've never seen me before.

What do you say and do?

Title	I find day game terrifying
Author	zenplus
Upvotes	4
Comments	20
Date	February 19, 2018 9:15 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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