Stats:

Age: 30

Race: Eastern Asian

Height: 5'7

Location: Las Vegas

Preface: Oh man how long has it been. MONTHS. I stepped away from game for a bit. Been working 80 hours a week to build a business (no, not pick up related). Just started going out 1 night a week last month. Life's been good. Quit my day job. Now building a business with my good friend and wingman M (met him at the club in aug 2021). Game is legit the bufferfly effect thats changing my life for the better in every way.

I started to become bored of game towards the end of last year. I came to the realization that peasant game is retarded (cold approach pickup), but don't get me wrong, it's still extremely valuable. It's just diminishing return for me at this point. I'm probably 80% to Todd V's level. It would take me years to get that final 20%. Or.... i can get RICH and get status. Then it's all inbound leads. I came to this realization from watching Michael Sartain, Drunkjustin2, Patrick Red, and just pretty much any man with alot of status. They don't do cold approach. No need. But again, don't get me wrong, cold approach is extremely valuable and will teach you alot and change your life, especially if you've never done it before. I'll make another post about this in far greater detail.

For this FR, me and the boys went to downtown and bought a table. Soooo much cheaper than the clubs. $600/3 guys. That's a fucking bargain compared to Omnia $3k minimum. A cocktail at omnia is $30 these days.

Sets:

  1. We got to the table and I immediately open these 2 petite hot hispanic girls. They were 21. I opened with location cold read with an added emotional spike. They giggle. I was trying to talk to the girls, but the bottle girl interjected and was trying to take my order. Just immense status from this. After I ordered, I went back to chatting with the target girl. I chatted with cold reads, guessing games, and talking about her tattoos. As we're talking, I'm stimutaneously performing incremental physical escalation until I held her hand and just pulled her closer to me. Put her hand over my shoulder. The tension was palpable. I went for the make out. After making out, her friend interjected and was like "we gotta find out friends". They exit set. It's kool. Night's just starting.
  2. Saw a cute white girl standing on the dance floor on her phone with her group of friends, guys and girls. Nobody was interacting with her so I swooped in like a hawk. I told her "you look like you're having the most fun in the club right now". She giggles and enthusiastically says yes. I just said, come grab drinks with me at the table. She agrees. I grab her hand and lead. We sit down and light flirting occurs. My hands on her knee for physical escalation. we're super close, shoulder to shoulder and facing each other very closely while talking. I go in for the make out. We make out intensely and then she straddles me. Now we're just plain inappropriate at the club. This goes on for like 2-3 minutes and everybody was looking at us. Eventually waitress said "hey sorry no crude behavioral". That's fine. she gets off me and we sit next to each other just chatting and making out. At this point, I wanted to keep running it, but i was like... this is a prime situation for pulling. So I went for the pull. As we were heading to the exit, she bumps into her friends and theyre like noooooooo you cant leave with him. I should have handle this objection better but whatever I wanted to keep partying tbh.
  3. Spotted this tiny Filipino or hispanic girl on the dance floor walking by herself. I open and went super direct. We kiss within like 2 minutes and she bails.
  4. there was one more but i can't remember
  5. 330am it's time to bounce. We leave the club, but the street was still LIT. I spotted 2 hispanic girls across the street. My wing M and I approach. They spoke just enough english to communicate so we were running game in our extremely broken and retarded spanish lmao. Idk why but they liked it. At this point, I suggested after party. They agreed to go to the strip club. Got to the strip club and the girls were just sitting in our laps. Chatting and making out alot. Left the strip club at like 430. Pulled back to my place and yall know how it goes ;)

Theres alot more to this night that I'm leaving out cause I dont want a TLDR.

Key Take Aways:

  1. Don't read this post and be like "SeE i ToLd YoU CoLd ApPrOaCh WaS a WaStE oF tImE". Learning game was probably one of the BEST things that happened to me in my life, probably the best. It taught me so much and I would not be the man I am today without it. I'm pretty good at game and it's just diminishing returns at this point.
  2. This FR really highlights status. Status just goes so far. For example, if Todd V and I were in the club and I had a table, I could take the girl from him. Status is very powerful and it's non negotiable when it comes to attraction. Women can decide if theyre attracted to your looks/personality/game, but not status. It's not a choice. I'll dive deeper into this in another post. Or just watch michael sartain, he explains it very well. Basically even 60% mastery of game with status will outperform 100% mastery of game with no status everyday of the week.
  3. A huge fear of guys is opening mix sets. Here's a cheat code: if she looks bored, just approach her. That white girl was in a group of friends but staring at her phone. She's begging for someone to bring excitement into her life.
  4. If you have status (table at the club in my case), you have alot of value to offer. Go direct. Hit hard and hit them fast. I try to pull to the table asap, like within 2 minutes. Why run game at a disadvantage on the dance floor looking like a pleb when I don't have to? Leverage what you got.
  5. The first girl actually came back to the table when I was face deep in the white girl so she saw the intense and inappropriate make out session. After the white girl left, I opened the hispanic girl in set 1 again and made out with her more lmao. What concept does this demonstrate? Competition anxiety and social proof. Girls LOVE men who can get other girls. It's that simple.
  6. By set 3, I've had some crazy moments at the club so I was really feeling it. It wasn't even confidence anymore, it was arrogance. The frame of mind as I approach set 3 was: yo i've been making out with every girl I've opened so this is just the natural order of things for me. Build momentum and it will guide you.
  7. With the final set of the night, I had to be strategic. After opening and a few minutes of chit chat, I needed to seed the pull. It's 330am and if you dont move fast, they're just gonna be like "we're gonna head home". They actually said that, but we convinced them after party at the strip club instead. You need to be aware of the situation and the time and adapt accordingly.