Women on these subreddits are more likely to give men an unhealthy perspective on women than red pill bros

I want to be clear I am not saying all women are like this or are bad people. Let me tell you what I mean specifically here. As a man who never really interacted with women that much and lived his under a rock his own life I became a gullible person. But I never was into redpill or Andrew Tate so I never developed a unhealthy mindset of women. The only kind of women I meet are the ones online and boy they have had a stronger factor in shaping my perspective on women than any of the redpill content I watched and it's not positive at all. First is the apathy and reluctance to understand men's insecurities. I have seen women on relationship advice shaming men for being concerned about his wife clubbing till 4 am and telling him people cheat in all kinds of place not just clubs. In another post the women are like maybe she just enjoys taking her wedding ring off cause blah. I have even read a feminist article about women who was had affair with a man and demands and expects sympathy from friends and downplays the emotional damage cheating has. I have seen women here defending the separation of sex and romance without understanding our fears about how it will affect romantic culture. Honestly the biggest problem about these women, is their inability to acknowledge there are different world views not everyone is hyper focused on the individual capacity to perform a certain behavior without judgment maybe there is something else we care about. No they won't acknowledge that like at all. I recommend redpillers and young impressionable men like me leave these subreddits and meet healthy women. I am sure not every women is pushing hookup culture but I don't think they are here. These women on the internet are making me think women are nothing but cheaters who only care about sex and only get into relationships with "safe" men. But thankfully I am trying to meet real women who are not like the women on here so I think I will get better. But I really the women her are dangerous to impressionable young men who don't have much experience with women.