I am considering redivorcing my wife again. She has issues that she refuses to get help for and a alcohol problem. My issue is I fell for the " we need to get back for the kids. " Her on her best behavior lost weight and looked amazing . Hook. Line. Sinker. I want to break this cycle and be able to pull away for good. What is a good counter argument when it comes to the kids. To head off when it does happen. We bought a house (hardly any equity) so this round I know has a high chance of hurting. For those considering a divorce I will recommend Terrance Pop"s Pre divorce mentality on youtube.