Monkey Branching in action

MonarchistExtreme · 2024-02-05T20:05:46+00:00

I wish her all the luck in the word in her conquests. It's better for us that our ex is happy especially when kids are involved. If your ex was alone, bitter and resentful, she'd have all day to study evil to dump on you.

Old-Macaroon8148 · 2024-02-04T14:24:28+00:00

Mine booked a vacation to Panama for her and her AP two days after I told her I knew she was having an affair.

They have zero shame haha.

windowsfrozenshut · 2024-02-04T09:09:01+00:00

I watched my BPD ex search for her monkey branch in real time. She had used my computer and was logged onto her FB. I hopped on and opened FB and saw that it was logged in as her. So, I did a Schrodinger's snoop and saw her messaging a bunch of guys from a local singles group. Watched it happen for a while until I confronted her about it. I watched in real time as all the conversations disappeared and she denied it. Told her I've been watching it for weeks now. Of course, if you know BPD, you know what happened next.

Reflog1791 · 2024-02-04T03:05:18+00:00

Good post. Lot of guys around here need to follow the digital footprint rather than guess and wonder what’s going on.

BPD and all this other nonsense we try and diagnose is ridiculous though. Sounds like every ex wife ever. It ain’t BPD it’s just what they do.

justaguywadog · 2024-02-04T02:00:50+00:00

Lol my ex too then she got pissed when she found out I was taking to other girls and banging them

pharmd718 · 2024-02-03T21:00:23+00:00

“BPD and it will go terminal” - holy shit! That guy is for one rude wake up call!! I’m surprised you lasted with her. She will NEVER EVER have a long relationship. BPD is the worse case scenario

junkmailbox121 · 2024-02-03T20:26:41+00:00

If you have your mind set on divorce it’s sort of a blessing in disguise when the stbx monkey branches. I at first thought it was messed up how my ex was talking to someone the day she got served (because she was probably talking to the guy even before) but in the end it helped speed things up and was funny to see it all end for some reason once the divorce was finalized.

Ok_Perception_1836 · 2024-02-03T19:04:21+00:00

Why are you still paying for her phone? Cut that bitch off.

Apprehensive-Cost496 · 2024-02-03T17:33:32+00:00

There were some instances during my divorce where it seemed like my exw was trying to fish for something to see if I wanted her back. However, cheating is a deal breaker and I was just done, no way Id want someone else's leftovers.

I think once she realized Old Man Balls AP was actually wanting to stay long term, she doubled down on that. Its pretty sad and pathetic but he took out the trash to be honest.

gorillavstiger · 2024-02-03T17:23:52+00:00

My ex consulted with her boyfriend, who I didn't know about, while we were in mediation. They are still together though of course won't get married or cohabitate because she still isn't working (3 years later).

Could be extremely bitter, I would rather focus on the long-term and be confident my situation will be 5x better (though I fear for the kids).

warrior_up · 2024-02-03T17:15:58+00:00

I mean that’s like the case 99.9% of the time. There’s always some pathetic chump so desperate for pussy they court women pre separation. Trust me when I say this - it’s worse than you think, been going on for years behind your back - they’re just better at hiding it on social media. Likely and ex or ex BF from highschool or some shit. Fucking chump

The same guys liking our family photos on Facebook were the same ones I saw trying to hook up with my wife sending secret pms

She’s on her 7th boyfriend now 5 years post divorce, guess she’s gonna marry this one after a year of dating. Doesn’t end well for them - trust me. Actually sad, all the damage they cause just to End up with a guy that makes a fraction of what I do annually, about 1ft half smaller, w/ gangly teeth that haven’t been cleaned since 1994. A guy that likely uses my child support to buy stuff

New-Amoeba9042 · 2024-02-03T17:04:17+00:00

Yup, my ex did the same. First 10 weeks she’d stay in contact, and give me hope we could work it out. Once she secured a new guy at her new job, she went no contact on me

ForgottenSon2 · 2024-02-03T16:49:32+00:00

Oh shit my ex does the same with the five paragraphs and I give the 👍or 👌. I refuse to get into a long dialogue.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2024-02-03T16:46:10+00:00

Karma is a dished served hot. As you see, it eventually comes.

Title	Monkey Branching in action
Author	justme4556
Upvotes	48
Comments	50
Date	February 3, 2024 4:43 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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