Can you tell a girl you think she’s attractive/pretty?

htbf · 2018-01-24T17:26:33+00:00

Yes.

But only if you do it right. So, since you're asking, take the yes as a no.

chazthundergut · 2018-01-24T22:27:26+00:00

What you really should to communicate: "You are a sexually attractive female. As a masculine male, it is my natural desire to fuck you like an animal."

You should never communicate this verbally, with words.

You should always communicate through your behavior.

So act like she is an attractive female and you are an attractive male who wants to fuck her (but does not need anything from her).

This means that you look her in the eyes (without staring for too long like a creep). You tease her playfully. You touch her. You sexualize the conversation with innuendo. You create tension in the interaction by pushing and pulling away, and not trying to fill every silent moment or qualifying yourself. You let her catch you (briefly) checking out her body, and you maintain your frame when she tries to buzz you on it. You engage with her fully present in the moment. You allow yourself to feel your sexual desire for her, which is natural, and you communicate it to her by being with her in the moment as you feel and accept your desire ...

The real art of game is to learn to communicate honestly through behavior. And there are really only two things you need to communicate: 1. You are a masculine, high-value man who is non-needy, self-validating, and grounded in his own reality. 2. You feel sexual desire for her without feeling any neediness for her.

If you can learn how to say those things with your behavior (never words) you have mastered game.

Inchado · 2018-01-24T16:35:59+00:00

Never compliment a girl on her physical appearance.

If you want to truly mess with a girl compliment her on her personality. Girls are aware their only value in life is from their looks so when you compliment her personality they'll think something is wrong with their looks.

Kommanderdude · 2018-01-24T16:59:32+00:00

You don’t have to tell an attractive girl she’s attractive. She knows because she has a line of guys hoping to put their dick in her. She’s gonna view you telling her that as a pathetic beta attempt to fuck her. Which it is. Now it could work on true uggo that’s also fat because it will give her an emotional reaction because she knows she’s fat and ugly. Something tells me you don’t like fat uggos.

damaged_goods420 · 2018-01-24T18:39:15+00:00

Bang her into oblivion

BluffButt · 2018-01-25T04:29:29+00:00

Say it once and never again after. You state that you find her attractive which puts the idea in her head that you might be interested. Then she’ll be expecting it more. When you don’t say it every again then she’ll start putting more effort for you to acknowledge it. From there she’s putting effort in which means she needs your approval. Go from there. Not hard

redhawkes · 2018-01-24T18:38:03+00:00

Of course you can,

"you're attractive(pregnant pause), in dark" watch the hamster destroy itself, and she's going to playfully punch you. I hope you get the context. Also when you tease make it known that you're joking, smile or playfully punch her, or she can take it as an insult.

But if you ask should you feed her ego and put her on the pedestal like a thirsty beta, the answer is always 'no'.

Keep her always swinging on the edge of validation and rejection.

mrpoopistan · 2018-01-25T04:17:05+00:00

Don't tell her she's pretty or attractive. Remark on her outfit. Her hair.

"Yer pretty" gets a little subservient.

"Like the hair," throws her a bone and also attaches the prospect of continued to compliments to the idea that she needs to keep doing something well.

I'm pretty sparse with compliments. It sends women off the deep end. As in, full-on blowing up my phone with pics and vids that just keep escalating the extremities of sluttiness. I know other guys argue for little texting, but I've found it works for me as long as I make a point to stay out of the compliment fishing stream.

FTR, I've found the hair/clothes compliments work best when she's at a real low point. For example, there was a girl I dated years ago who worked at a breastaurant. Actually, more of an asstaurant. The outfits includes these radioactive orange shorts (it was not Hooters, it was a local sports bar) that showed damn near everything. Around 1:30am, her once-a-month compliment tended to land very well, especially if it was ass-related.

chachaChad · 2018-01-25T11:24:16+00:00

In my experience, telling a hot girl she is pretty causes their defenses to go on full alert. They have been told they are pretty for years by every beta that ever tried to get into their pants. Somehow, some guys think the appropriate response for such a complement is for her to drop to her knees in gratitude.

Complements do work on hot women but it has to be about something other than their looks and it can’t be direct or fawning.

redpillthrowaway1214 · 2018-01-25T15:11:53+00:00

Only when you're having sex with her. All other times don't.

[deleted] · 2018-01-25T17:01:33+00:00

I only tell a girl she looks good after we are fucking regularly and she actually wants to know if I, still attracted to her.

SeamusAwl · 2018-01-24T16:32:45+00:00

Why? Girls have beta orbiters for that. They want to be desired by an AF.

MrBowlfish · 2018-01-24T16:42:46+00:00

The real question is what are you hoping to gain from telling her this?

CutLiver · 2018-01-24T18:48:59+00:00

Kiss them. Even the ugly ones get guys complimenting them all the time.

Title	Can you tell a girl you think she’s attractive/pretty?
Author	BluePig77
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Comments	43
Date	January 24, 2018 4:17 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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