This idea that men are always the perpetrator, and never the victim is absurd. I used to look up Autistic boys and sexual assault, and instead of talking about my experience with sexual assault it talked about us as potential perpetrators. Now it talks about the sexual assault of Autistic women (which is high like 9 in 10 women), the statistics for men are lower but also lower in the search results. It’s like people don’t even know it’s happening to us.