8/10 wants to fuck at her apartment after a party. ED from anxiety, she's too drunk. Following first regular date a week later, she leaves in middle of night & ghosts me after I make advances at my apartment.

tl;dr: Recovering Beta. Only one 4-year LTR in my life. Massive self-improvement after GF dumped me early 2017. Knew a DJ & was up on stage at party. Met pretty hot 8/10 there. Tells me I look like a "rich prick", am "too short" and how her ex-BFs were bouncers, company owners. Say "fuck you then", pull up random girls on stage, dance with them instead. She goes absolutely crazy for me, kisses me, compliments me. She's too drunk to stand. Escort her home, she wants to fuck. Too nervous & tired to get it up. She tells me I'm a dream man, cuddles, kisses my muscles the next day. Following week she texts me sweet messages, I invite her to a classical date, take her home. When i try to fuck her again, she freaks, leaves in the middle of the night, says she enjoyed the date but advancing so fast was "very rude" and ghosts me. Question: Is this shit salvagable? What did I do wrong here? Was I too fast or too beta? Theory: My SMV is too low for her when she's sober, if she would have wanted to fuck me she would have done it right then, it's a waste of time to bother with her anymore even though she's very hot. She said she regrets getting so drunk and only had 5 boyfriends in her life. Which I have a hard time believing.

Full story:

Was stuck in depressive Beta LTR for 4 years, only GF ever.

She dumped me.

Found the Red Pill.

Went monk mode, started lifting, got new clothes, haircut, car, friends, habits, hobbies. Cut out toxic people from my life.

Started practising with girls in 2018 as a resolution. Results were great.

First time at a night club EVER I made out with two 6-7/10 girls simulatenously, one dryfucked me on the couch, people were cheering. Surreal.

I know a DJ through new friends, we got stage access.

You were 100% correct about status. Not super muscular (yet) and my dance moves are ridiculous. But being up on stage with the DJ made women flock to me. Surreal again. Danced in front of 500 people, brofisted 50 guys, girls were cheering.

We allowed a particularly attractive 8/10 up on stage. My Beta mind kicked in, "this girl is beautiful".

She was shitfaced drunk, almost fell off the stage. Between French kissing me and grabbing my crotch she consistently insulted me, said I looked like a "rich prick", "overdressed", am "too small" and "too young" for her (am 23 and 182cm / 6 feet, she's 25, smaller). She said her ex-BF is a bouncer, she knows millionaires and company owners.

I told her, "alright, fuck you then", walked away and pulled 5 random girls up the stage and danced with them instead.

She immediately came back to me, said she was so sorry, kissed me, danced with me, even flashed her bra at me.

The party ended at 6 A.M. I agreed to walk her home.

She probably wanted to fuck me, but she was too trunk & I was too tired and nervous to get it up. So we fell asleep.

The next day she spent half an hour kissing my muscles, she asked "why such a dream man would possibly be single, you're amazing, thanks for staying 'decent'". (FUCKING BETA, AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA)

She texted me images of herself, without make-up, in yoga pants, wishing me goodnight and shit.

I always responded 6-8 hours later with short, cold comments.

Made a date at a restaurant near my new apartment.

Had a good time, she was talking 95% of the time.

We got home, started cuddling, went over to the bed, started massaging each other.

I took 25mg of Cialis earlier & was super focussed on getting it up and not failing. It worked, rock hard.

When I made moves to initiate sex, she freaked. "What are you doing? Where do you think this is going?"

Then she packed her shit and left, at 2:30 fucking AM at night.

The next day she texted me that she loved the date and thought it was about "getting to know each other closer", but my plain advances in bed were "rude". "Why are you taking me out on a classical date when you intentions are different?"

My answer was: "Because I feel like it. If this was too fast for you, sorry. I liked the last date, the offer for a second one on Saturday stands."

She hasn't responded in 5 days and I don't think she will until the next date.

What the FUCK did I do wrong? This shit is more painful and awkward than getting friendzoned. Was I too fast? But how badly could she have wanted me if she doesn't want sex immediately?

It took all my effort to hide my beta-ness and yet I still get shit like this.

Should I move on or can I salvage this? This girl is seriously fucking hot, like 8-8.5/10.