To provide some context, our marriage was somewhat arranged, and our engagment period was short (6 months). I (33M) got married to my wife (31F) about two months ago.before marriage ,we had our fights and problems, but I was able to deal with them and move on. marriage was something else, The moment we got married and we started living together, I realised that marriage is truly and absolutely not for me.

I have no idea what got me into getting married, the closest thing I could think of is that I am truly an irresponsible person and not fit or made to be married to someone, I just love my old live and I want it back. To be fair to myself, my wife had her lions share i making me feel like this, since marriage, she started showing signs of aggression, possesiveness and disrespect. She doesnt care at all about my job, she gets mad if I want to meet with my friends and causes huge troubles.

She actively tries to get me away from my friends and from my past identity.

She also started showing sign of what I would say mental issues in the way she responds to our arguments and fights, this scares me.

One time we fought about something and she insulted me,minutes later she came to me and without saying anything, tried to kiss me, I was very angry at the time ao I pulled my head back and refused to kiss her, she kept me up that night untill 4 am fighting and crying, just because I was angry and didnt want to kisa her, in the middle of a fight, in which she insulted me and didnt apologize.

To sum things up, life is hell right now, I feel like I am literally locked up with this controlling, possesive person whom I have lost all interest in and certainly not willing to live the rest of my life with or have children together, those kids will be living in absolute hell, no way.

She is an ambitious person, and shr expressed to me many times that I am not the person she ahould have married and that this is not the life she wants to live, we werent made for each other from the beginning but we made the mistake of trying to force it, both of us.

She expressed many time (during fights) that she wants a divorce, do you think that she also wants to leave?

By the way, I have never hit her, she hit me twice.

Physical relationship between us is forced, at least from my side.

I just want to end this peacfully and without further suffering and anxiety for both of us.In my country, the man can divorce at will without needing court , he only has to pay compensation, but I dont want to do that, I do not hate her or want her to be hurt, I just want us to agree that we are (as a married couple) an extreme and utter faliure. Is that possible?