Financial and mental preperation for future divorce.

Flashy_Yam967 · 2023-08-19T08:51:15+00:00

Get out ASAP and if you're only 2 months in, maybe you can get an annulment vs. Divorce. When there is a income difference as large as yours (mine was the same), a prenup is critical. Alimony is the absolute devil.

It's so very good you're recognizing this so early.

No-Exit6560 · 2023-08-19T12:06:31+00:00

Talk to a lawyer like in the next 24 hours and ask him to unfuck your life.

Warning signs two months in? The honey moon period is supposed to last a tad longer than that.

ciscopimp2 · 2023-08-19T22:34:14+00:00

Is annulment an option for your state ?

probebeta · 2023-08-20T04:49:39+00:00

I ignored my gut feeling and stayed in my marriage even though I knew it's not the right choice. It has been the worst mistake of my life. You probably want to start thinking about postnop and definitely don't have kids!

Objective-Motor2419 · 2023-08-19T11:20:46+00:00

Get a post nup or depending on the state a legal separation asap. Either way, talk to a family lawyer about each next week. When there’s a huge income difference then you got to protect yourself especially when you’re seeing red flags so early in the marriage (I also had the same with fiance, made about 5-8 times more than her depending on the year). If she doesn’t agree to either, yet another huge red flag she may be using you for the money which is sad to face but some women can be highly manipulative to high income earners and the faster you get it out the more you’ll save in potential future alimony etc.

dog_fart_tacos · 2023-08-19T12:55:25+00:00

ranger69danger · 2023-08-19T15:14:32+00:00

Sooner you quit the less shit you will go thru to get free. Financial penalties likely imposed by the judge are only going to increase with time. Any financial or other planning you might accomplish will likely be undone if you keep waiting and living this life that you already seem not to want

DatabaseSpace · 2023-08-19T19:31:36+00:00

The best thing you can do is file as soon as possible. The longer you stay married the more likely will get hit with support and alimony.

wakablahh · 2023-08-19T20:07:23+00:00

Talk to a lawyer, you may have more options than you realize, but time may be of the essence.

MrLondon87 · 2023-08-20T10:41:58+00:00

Marriage made make a rational man actually end a relationship earlier than he otherwise would. Seeing the first issues one cam project that this won't last for a lifetime, so best to end it early to avoid the massive financial repercussions. Insane.

Title	Financial and mental preperation for future divorce.
Author	whirlevh
Upvotes	7
Comments	14
Date	August 19, 2023 6:49 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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