This is a follow-up on a previous post I amd regarding meeting my STBXW. As expected, when we met up, her goal was to discredit me as if I am the cause of all our problem, specially her psychotic rage. She kept shifting personality, she first came in with an ego centric attitude, she sat there looking at me, as if she was looking for an apology. When she was met with No, she turned into a victim and started accusing me of false ideas that she made up in her head, she also lied to my relatives about something she said earlier (they knew she said it because they heard it themselves). Two days later she called asking that we set all the past aside and sit to talk. I know nothing will change for a covert narcicist with BPD. She always wanted to control my life, what I wear, what I eat, what I THINK, made an enemy out of my friends and family. This is nerve wrecking, I want this over. Any advice from anyone who has been throught this or dealt with this type of partner?