Single mom puts so much emphasis in her kids being first that she comes across as not interested in dating or making time for anyone.

Land_of_the_Losers · 2023-08-18T13:45:18+00:00

Having young kids is hard and very time consuming... which is why two parents will have an easier time than a single parent. And this is why you choose wisely who you reproduce with... they have to be a good and supportive future parent.

This lady has a snowball in hell's chance of finding any man who wants to seriously be with her, before her kids are at least past their toddler years and in school / able to be with a babysitter.

Mundane_Worldliness7 · 2023-08-18T14:23:00+00:00

Kids, plural, where was this level of care and forethought before conception. Women have from time immemorial, been judging the father potential of guys. Many women have no issues finding responsible guys, now it seems that the selection process has been truncated. All the consideration is AFTER the fact, it’s the not first guy who is limited, who must wait for sex, who must be judged, it’s the second guy. Chad gets a legacy, she gets a legacy and somebody else gets to pay. It’s like it’s unconscious with women.

Land_of_the_Losers · 2023-08-18T13:45:43+00:00

♫ I got me a baby and she is two.

The daddy's name was Slugs McGoo!

He loved to fight and he loved to screw,

And I'm still in love with Slugs McGoo!

I got me a baby and she is one,

The daddy's name was Fists McGum!

Never worked a job, that lazy bum,

And I'm still in love with Fists McGum!

I got me a baby and she is three.

The daddy's name was Burps McGee!

When the baby popped out, he ran to flee,

And I'm still in love with Burps McGee! ♫

Take it, Benny!

Rob141414 · 2023-08-18T13:52:31+00:00

She can start dating once them crumb snatchers turn 18.

Joaquino7997 · 2023-08-18T15:01:20+00:00

So...if she's got a 2-month old, was she pumped-n-dumped long before the baby was born?

That alone is a colossal red flag about her focus and her availability - never mind the older kid.

If she can't accept the fact that the only people in her life for the rest of her life will be her two children, then that's on HER.

Looks like she eliminated herself, folks. Feel free to swipe left - she's too busy changing diapers and probably won't even notice.

haekz · 2023-08-18T18:57:30+00:00

Not related to this particular woman, but i can't understand why women are like this and destroyed the institution of marriage when it was designed to protect them, it's extremely hard being a single mother, every man looks down on you or take you in reluctantly, while they could choose a guy they like, respect him, and they have a father that helps with the kid and pay everything while you stay at home taking care of them, instead, they want to be subservient to a boss that treats them like garbage, scrap by, and have kids that will be mentally fucked up because they didn't have a father. Marriage protects women more than it is of any benefit to the father (since it doesn't necessarily ensure paternity...)

Also, DNA tests are such a blessing, it genuinely is a boon that has been given to us by the "we need to balance the whoredom" god.

notthefuzz99 · 2023-08-18T15:24:40+00:00

Great! Kids come first. So why are you on a dating app again?

CottonEyedCooch · 2023-08-18T13:54:51+00:00

So brave! Anyway, have fun with that.

Profitglutton · 2023-08-18T19:12:47+00:00

That’s cool and all. As long as she’s fine coming dead last to the man she gets with. Last to the football game, dates with other women, going out with the boys, etc. Dead last in everything just like she plans on treating the guy.

mustangfrank · 2023-08-18T17:43:03+00:00

She: My kids always come first. My kids always come first. My kids always come first. My kids always come first. My kids always come first. My kids always come first.

Me: I want a woman who values me first. That means no single moms.

KrazyJazz · 2023-08-19T07:38:07+00:00

So take care of your damned kids, get off FB, tinder or WhatNot and shut the fuck up. End of the story.

Cuss-Mustard · 2023-08-18T18:29:22+00:00

Typical white trash single mom rant. Guarantee those hoodlums run around in nothing but diapers all day

Glittering_Window258 · 2023-08-19T14:37:59+00:00

She’s definitely leading with her best, I guess.

I’m a single full-time single father. You’d think single moms would be my major dating and social cohort. At least we can relate on the single parent avenue. Nope. Single moms are consistently the most entitled, flakey, demanding group I’ve met. Best to stay away from all that.

mrskeetskeeter · 2023-08-18T20:28:14+00:00

Fuck her. She’s not the only gash on the planet.

MacSquawk · 2023-08-19T03:42:00+00:00

She can put the children’s needs first by not looking for a man in the first place. Every minute she is with him is time taken from the children. Every minute she spends with the kids is time taken away from the man. A man doesn’t want that, kids do not want that. Needs to do the selfless thing and go raise them kiddos.

DrDog09 · 2023-08-20T17:27:32+00:00

Hmmm, FTM. So who be paying the bills? And so the herd of SIW expands yet again.

mattyy3 · 2023-11-09T14:32:11+00:00

At most she will get pumped and dumped, she doesn't deserve a good man.

-stonium- · 2023-08-19T11:47:11+00:00

shes not in the wrong tho. children should always come first. of course she will be picky i mean its her fucking children bros. how would you feel if your mom brought some douchebag stepdad home.

Title	Single mom puts so much emphasis in her kids being first that she comes across as not interested in dating or making time for anyone.
Author	kevin32
Upvotes	97
Comments	38
Date	August 18, 2023 1:37 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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