Why you are most likely into the red pill

l-arc-en-ciel777 · 2023-02-03T09:47:41+00:00

For me, Red Pill was what I turned to after an incident I had where my father tried to shoot me. I literally had a Joker moment where one bad day had entirely warped my view of the world and having to fend for myself during the beginning and through COVID-19 year 1 did not reinforce to me that I was cared for or valued.

I think a lot of men who turn to Red Pill have not yet developed the required internal growth to ask "Am I the problem?" and consider objectively how their actions might affect other people. This is exacerbated when Red Pill Content constantly tells Red Pill men that they explicitly aren't the problem and that they need to adjust to the climate that is mass consumerism.

Active_Economics7378 · 2023-02-03T09:40:12+00:00

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Naus1987 · 2023-02-03T14:24:02+00:00

I discovered red pill in my 30s when I learned I was asexual, and wasn’t sure if I could date again, and discovered mgtow.

Turns out us ace folks can just date other ace folks lol.

I’ve never had any problems with self esteem, goals, or focus. I had been in relationships from 16 until 32. And then took some years off to discover myself.

And now I’m back on the train with an asexual woman.

But red pill showed me how terrible a lot of men have it. I had no idea.

Especially with height. I’m 5’7” and I never felt short in my entire life. But the way the internet speaks about height makes it feel like short people have cancer lol.

All of my exes have been shorter than me too. Typically in the 5’1”-5’5” range.

But my romance game is absolutely on point. I’m Disney romance incarnate. The asexual part means I don’t lose my focus due to sex. All romance.

xvszero · 2023-02-03T19:09:50+00:00

I think people come from a lot of directions. For me I just grew up taught a lot of conservative bullshit about sex by my family / others in our religious community, and for awhile was turning into one of those creepy dudes who is like mid 20s and only wants to date a virgin. And since that's really, really freaking hard to find, especially when you are an awkward mother fucker who can barely talk to a woman, then you start to get mad at "modern society" and feminism and everyone you perceive to be responsible for this impossible situation you feel in. And you especially can get caught blaming women who have sex with guys who aren't you.

I mean I was never SUPER bad about it (like I would probably actually have dated a non-virgin, I just preferred a virgin) but it was still gross.

Luckily I got past that nonsense.

Remandergrowth · 2023-02-04T12:40:59+00:00

I feel the people most likely in the red pill tick many boxes.

They likely have issues attracting women like you previously noted.
They likely grew up with female purity culture or the idea that women can do no wrong because they are the moral tether of society. This is very common in religious and conservative communities, which put immense pressure on women to be these super moral creatures.
They have often been lied to about how to attract women by a media engine that focuses on cope.

So when these men grow up and figure out that women are not the angels they thought they were and that they are actually human beings like guys are, they get "red pill" and try to create a good for me but not for thee idealogy.

saladdude1 · 2023-02-04T14:52:27+00:00

I break up with my gf that's what turned me into red pill she got married after my break up after few years, i felt like shit, like i was nothing, then I decided after few months of break up to never ever get in a relationship and just focus on myself and build my own safe environment where I don't have to deal with emotional pain.

ManWazo · 2023-02-04T04:18:19+00:00

I come to the redpill because I was bullied and sexless all my life because of my height. It became worst they day I made a sexist joke on Facebook and as a result hundreds of feminists in my dms telling me I should suicide. I hated my life, I hated women and I hated feminism. I though that all my.problems were caused by my height, but I was only partly.right.

When I discovered neurodiversity groups and queer communities, everything went better: I gained confidence had (and still have) and realized that white rich women that makes fun of small autistic men are not representative of feminism as a whole. There's queer poly neurodiverse folks out there and they are the best people ever!

Title	Why you are most likely into the red pill
Author	mina_starcat
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Comments	19
Date	February 3, 2023 9:01 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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