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Question for Actual Inkwells: Would you be a fwb with a woman, but it’s just you doing oral on her?

health_throwaway195

September 6, 2023
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Title Question for Actual Inkwells: Would you be a fwb with a woman, but it’s just you doing oral on her?
Author

health_throwaway195

Upvotes 3
Comments 56
Date September 6, 2023 8:51 PM UTC
(2 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/16bvp5o/question_for_actual_inkwells_would_you_be_a_fwb/
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[–]Hubris1998 5 points6 points7 points 2 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Let's be real, there's no way I can't convince her to let me go all the way after doing that... That being said, what would the terms of this relationship be? 'Cause if she's getting raw dogged by other guys while this is happening, not only are you getting cucked but you might even get an STD and die of throat cancer.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Let's be real, there's no way I can't convince her to let me go all the way after doing that...

Fact dawg

[–]Xbox-Loud-Cloud-216 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

https://youtu.be/fCwogYUPXzo?si=X2qax4EJlWhFW7sh 4:12 . Your welcome 😂😂 . I would never

[–]Hubris1998 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

👀 The West has fallen.

[–]health_throwaway195[S] 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Exclusive, but no chance of going all the way.

[–]Hubris1998 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Okay, then yeah, absolutely. Again, there's a 0% chance she's being serious about not fucking lmfao

[–]operation-spot -1 points0 points1 point 2 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

So you’d do it but only because you think it would result in sex which is what you really want?

[–]Hubris1998 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

While the act is enjoyable in and of itself, it would be extremely jarring to be in a relationship where sex is not on the table for absolutely no reason at all.

[–]operation-spot -1 points0 points1 point 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

There would be no penetrative sex but sex nonetheless. Would it be better if it wasn’t an exclusive relationship?

[–]Hubris1998 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

No, that would only make it worse.

The whole arrangement is bizarre. Why doesn't she wamt to have sex? Is there something wrong with her?

[–]operation-spot -1 points0 points1 point 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree but I was just wondering where you might draw the line.

[–]Cyrrow 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Knew a girl in my highschool class that did this. Totally possible.

[–]Hubris1998 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe she was saving her virginity for the one or something? Not that that makes it any less idiotic.

[–]ItoshiSae10 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If she has issues as to why she cant yes i would

If she wont because she isnt attracted to me and wants me to serve her no

[–]mewbestpokeman 5 points6 points7 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No because you're being dehumanized and treated like an object for her pleasure. This is the "objectification" w*men love to complain about, except this is worse because w*men at least get pleasure from C*ad pounding them.

Men, inkwell or not, really need to develop some self-respect. Dudes were saying yes to being pegged just for a chance of s*x in the extremely brutal granny fish Tinder experiment JFL.

[–]Copepill 6 points7 points8 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Anyone who says yes is a cuck.

[–]jordcx 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Hell no

[–]health_throwaway195[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Why not?

[–]jordcx 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You're licking up some other dudes cum particles.

[–]health_throwaway195[S] 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Assuming you weren’t.

[–]DurtyDanky 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

How is that "friends with benefits" if she's the only one getting the benefits?

[–]health_throwaway195[S] -1 points0 points1 point 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is assuming you like licking pussy, I guess.

[–]DurtyDanky 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Then it wouldn't be called friends with benefits if you're just doing that.

[–]hydro9889 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just accept being treated like a lesser being just because you werent born with good bones.

[–]DarkVashThe_ST 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

She doesn't do oral on me, she doesn't let me treat her the way chad treat her but "friend with benefit" I guess, lol.

No

[–]health_throwaway195[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Are you a genuine inkwell?

[–]DarkVashThe_ST 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yes. Why ?

[–]health_throwaway195[S] 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

But you still wouldn’t take this offer? Okay.

[–]DarkVashThe_ST 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I won't. I want the whole package.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It has to be a two-way street.

[–]paul_a_8002 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

yes

[–]health_throwaway195[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I find it fascinating that these results have been consistently hovering around 40% yes 60% no.

[–]five10manlet 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fuck no.

[–]ImOverIt06 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

As long as I can see other people yeah because I fuckin love pussy lmao

[–]cullinging 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is my ideal situation.

[–]princedune 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes but it doesnt matter because women dont see me as a human

[–]SilentFroggy 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

Ngl I wouldn’t be fwb at all. You can call it cope but my hatred for whores have grown that I can’t stand being around them anymore.

[–]health_throwaway195[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

Is whores all women?

[–]SilentFroggy 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

No

[–]health_throwaway195[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

So just any woman who has sex before marriage?

[–]SilentFroggy 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

If you’re asking for my opinion; it’s a woman who participates in hookups and/or has a high bodycount and thinks their past shouldn’t matter. Also including women who encourages other women that there’s no shame into sleeping around.

Only time I wouldn’t consider a high bodycount a whore is girls in high school who got manipulated into sex and regrets it. Especially because they’re young and have no idea how it will affect them in the future. I honestly feel bad for them.

I think it’s hypocritical if a guy is desiring a virgin/non whorish partner but would sleep with a hookup if they ever got a free chance. Hence the the guys here discussing what type of hookups they’d want.

[–]health_throwaway195[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

You consider oral sex to be a hookup?

[–]SilentFroggy 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Doing something sexual with another person is still sex. So yes

[–]health_throwaway195[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Ok. What about kissing?

[–]SilentFroggy 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I wouldn’t know. It’s not considered sex but you’re still doing an act that has intentions of sex. And if they’re kissing a bunch of men then it’s most likely they’re a whore. Not something I’d think about though.

Btw what makes you so curious?

[–]health_throwaway195[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I’m just curious where you draw the line. If a woman kisses tons of men but never has PIV sex with any of them, is that being a whore? At what level of intimacy does an act become sexual in nature?

[–]Dapper_Level2915 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

wonder if women find 'no' answers "misogynistic" due to many of them being fine with that arrangement when they are that kind of fwb for ch4d the average short janitor who tells enough jokes

[–]health_throwaway195[S] -1 points0 points1 point 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

How did you even reach this perception? You really need to log off, jfc.

[–]Dapper_Level2915 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

How did you even reach this perception?

things I've seen and felt

you really need to log off, jfc

certainly wasn't anything online, bud

[–]health_throwaway195[S] 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women irl think it’s misogynistic for men to not want to do this?

[–]MrBrittle 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

What is "Inkwells"?

[–]health_throwaway195[S] 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Truecels.

[–]MrBrittle -1 points0 points1 point 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not truecel, but I think if I were one, I think I would accept it. Yet as a normie, I had demanded reciprocity.

I love giving oral sex and rimming, if I were a truecel and had that opportunity, even without receiving anything in return, I would accept it, even with an average woman. For this would be a level of intimacy I could never dream of.

Now in my normie status and with some options, I would be in a position to turn this down even if I were single.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No, I'm not turned on by oral in any capacity and it would be a waste of time.

[–]STrcl1111 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No turbo cucked.

[–]KnifeWieldingRoomba 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Depends on the details, but it seems like most of the times this would mean I'm being both used for her pleasure but also denied any affection in return, so every time I went down on her it would be an indirect reminder that "this is all you're good for, this is how far you get, this is as much as you deserve". So I would say no.

On second thought, since this would allow me to practice my oral game for a real partner, I would prob say yes until I feel confident in that part, because until then there would be something I recieve in return during our interactions, despite being denied any care or physical affection.

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