"I don't do coffee dates" = buy me a fancy dinner so I can smash Chad afterwards who doesn't have to spend a single dime on me

Hubris1998 · 2023-09-06T10:09:00+00:00

Literal scam artists. Do not trust a woman who says that.

EverVigilant1 · 2023-09-06T13:49:26+00:00

Women have two standards.

Chad doesn't have to pay with money. Chad "pays" with attention and time (and sometimes his car "pays" when the bitch keys his car or pours acid on his car after he doesn't call her back).

All other men pay with money and commitment, and then with dead bedrooms or divorce rape.

A woman who says "no coffee dates" is setting this requirement for nonChads and beta buxes. These women are almost always coming up on or have blown past 30, have had their backs blown out and pumped and dumped numerous times, and now demand a beta bux get his checkbook out and pay.

No. Your attitude needs to be "I get whatever Chad got to have. I will not wait any longer for sex than the man you made wait the shortest amount of time. If Chad got sex 2 hours after meeting you, that's what I want. If Chad gets anal and BJs and ATM on the first date, that's what you must give me. Otherwise, keep it moving."

No. Never ever accept a woman making you wait any longer than Chad had to wait. Never accept waiting longer than 2 dates for something sexual to happen. If something sexual doesn't happen on the second date, end the date and never talk to her again. If she won't do anything sexual on the second date, she's not attracted to you. I guarantee you she did something sexual by the second date with men she was attracted to. If she's making you wait longer than 2 dates, she's not attracted to you. End the interactions immediately and move on.

Naebany · 2023-09-06T09:02:28+00:00

Ok, then let's go for a beer or a drink. Or for a walk. I don't do dinner dates.

RatDontPanic · 2023-09-06T12:04:30+00:00

I used to say we're splitting the bill. Women were harsh about that back in the day. Even as dating got exceptionally harder all the women I did date became exceptionally lenient and accepting about splitting the bill as time moved forward. Strange.

Metaphorically hang "split the bill" on your shirt, so to speak. The vampires will avoid you automatically, there's fewer of them now than ever.

TermAggravating8043 · 2023-09-06T08:12:42+00:00

“That’s great, thanks for letting know now what kind of person you are, take care”

That’s literally all you have to do, you don’t have to get angry, you don’t have to blame all woman, you don’t have to pretend this is something that happens all the time. You say a pleasant good bye then you move on

ProfessionalTwo8698 · 2023-09-06T16:16:57+00:00

I always go on first dates on outdoor settings. Money was never an issue, most I have spent on a woman in terms of net expense is 5 USD (10 or 12 Azn)

Euphoric-Condition-5 · 2023-09-06T10:48:01+00:00

Just don't go at dates like this then. You have a full right to do so

ROBYoutube · 2023-09-06T08:58:38+00:00

I remember once when I suggested coffee and the woman said 'Sorry, I only go on dates worth at least $300' and I replied something like oh that's cool, good luck out there and as soon as I pressed send special forces commandos rappelled through my windows with carbine machine guns and made me go on the expensive date. Don't make the same mistake I did and attempt to exert personal autonomy.

uselessloner123 · 2023-09-06T12:16:36+00:00

Isn’t coffee outdated these days? Do people other than boomers still drink that?

I think the modern thing is something like bubble tea or smoothies.

Welllarmedhippie · 2023-09-06T22:43:12+00:00

Coffee dates are a euphemism for rushed casual sex.

RopeorDope1 · 2023-09-06T07:58:51+00:00

If you think someone saying no to you is the same as shaming, dating anyone should be the last thing on your mind.

Maybe take a look at that chad infatuation.

JustinTrudeauBurner · 2023-09-06T09:30:33+00:00

She wont go on coffee dates with YOU specifically

Title	"I don't do coffee dates" = buy me a fancy dinner so I can smash Chad afterwards who doesn't have to spend a single dime on me
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Date	September 6, 2023 7:04 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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