It’s an extremely lazy argument because all it takes is for the other person to know someone of your gender that doesnt pity you and your whole argument falls apart, leaving you to reply with “Well, whatever. Theyre a simp/Pick-Me anyways!” That looks pathetic. And it’s rarely used for serious situations, like men being drafted for war and not having their SA taken seriously or women being used as breeding slaves and seen as property of men. It’s used for minor inconveniences like being horny or whatever the Barbie movie thinks is female oppression (because guys staring at women at a beach has ‘undertone of violence’ now).

The most common excuse I have seen is “Im a man. I cant help.” It’s used by guys who want to be excused acting like a terrible person or making really stupid decisions because they’re horny. Though, I do think it’s an IQ problem because these guys cant find a middle ground between acting like a eunuch and a dog in heat (or rutting). Stupid people typically think in black and white, but I digress. When they dont explicitly say that line, they clearly have that attitude. When women call them out for acting like brainlets, nutjobs, and/or outright villains, they just say “YOU DONT UNDERSTAND MALE SEX DRIVE!” Of course, when women bring up guys who dont use that excuse and know how to function like civilized human beings, the excuse horny simpletons use is “Well, theyre simps and tell you what you want to hear for pussy”.

The Barbie Movie is perfect example of everything I hated about current day Hollywood and how it portrays women. The gall of so many woke bitches claiming that it’s just men who dont like the movie and it’s because “men dismiss what it’s like for women in a patriarchy”. I’ll be using the “It’s Impossible To Be A Woman” speech that gets praised for no reason as the female example.

https://youtu.be/xHJMWYq9ArA?si=WpEwADgWQse8KWZK

TLDR: Its a rant from a middle age California mom that blames society for the fact that she’s an incompetent people pleaser.

I couldn’t relate to a single thing that lady said other than the first paragraph. However, I relate because I went to a very difficult school that expected alot from ALL their students, not because I’m female. The speech is clearly supposed to resonate with all women, but I, along with the women I know, were thinking “Holy shit, she’s thin skinned”. I have a friend that’s a mother of 3. I asked her how she felt about “You’re suppose to love being a mother, but dont talk about your kids all the damn time”. She laughed, rolled her eyes, says it’s easy to do, and that “some mothers forget how to live their life”.

It’s always funny being in subreddit that swears men and women behave differently, and yet, I see the same dumb victim complex play out. “You dont know what it’s like to be my gender!”, “Im so oppressed!”, “The opposite gender never gets called out!”, “This is a societal problem”, “You just hate my gender!” etc.

I don’t hate men nor women. I hate people who don’t take responsibility for themselves.