What was that defining moment that blackpilled you?

Many of us are quite familiar with the blackpill, and the scientific backings behind it. But today I'm more interested in hearing your stories. Whether you are someone who has had moderate success from looksmaxxing, or is still trying to improve, or has accepted their fate, what was the defining moment in your life that made you accept the blackpill?

For me personally, it was the look of disgust from a female classmate, who had to work with me in a college group project, when she accidentally touched my arm. Then I reflected on my life growing up as someone who was always a bit obese and had bad acne; that's when I understood the importance of looks.