I dread every text I get from her as it's always something bad. We have to stay in touch as we have two small kids. Both are suffering mentally heavily and their therapist / school tells us so. But she wants me to pay for the sessions as she claims she can't afford it (even though she caused the damage in the first place by cheating and leaving to be with the AP). She over extended herself living in the nice part of the town and clearly doesn't accept that she will have to downsize her living arrangements / won't be as well off because she no longer has access to my money. Now she wants to take them out of their school also and put them in a large public school, taking them away from the only school / friends they have known their entire life. That would destroy them. Again as she claims she cant afford to pay her half (I'm doing well but can't afford to pay for both alone). With me she acts like nothing ever happened and wants to be friends / doesn't understand why I won't talk to her (I'm grey rocking and NC except for things with kids). She caused me the most pain I ever experienced but is entirely indifferent to it all. We had to wait for months to officially file papers because of the holding period and now that we finally can she's dragging her feet at every opportunity, not signing papers, delaying.

I'm just so bitter and frustrated. Why won't this b*tch stop messing everything up for me and the kids. How can she be so self-entitled, narcisstic and happy to hurt the kids so she can have a better lifestyle? She earns a lot of money but prioritises herself over all others.