I don’t know what to do to help

Hot-Bookkeeper5277 · 2023-11-11T05:58:55+00:00

You’re only one person just like me, only thing we can do right now is just spread the word and tell our stories. There’s people out there who just simply will not listen to you because of their own mental illness, brainwashing and biases and there’s absolutely nothing we can do about that.

We live in a culture of steeping hatred and it is incredibly horrific. The only option is to March forward because the world is simply not the same anymore.

Asatmaya · 2023-11-11T05:51:18+00:00

Stop. Relax. Breathe.

We appreciate the help, but don't worry yourself sick over this; you are important, too.

if I have children. Will they have to grow up hearing this abomination of men? That is not what I want. I also do not want them teaching girls to be afraid of men. So what is it we can do?

"If all the world were just, there would be no need of valor."

There are always problems; there are always injustices; life is about dealing with those things, and when you think about what our ancestors dealt with... this is nothing.

In your last post, you spoke of being Christian, so you should know the Serenity Prayer:

"Lord, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."

I don't think about it the same way, but I recognize genuine wisdom when I hear it, whatever the source.

shit-zen-giggles · 2023-11-11T06:02:58+00:00

You could contact one (or all) of the folling orgs and check whether there's an opportunity / cause that warrants your volunteer engagement:

If you're not from the US, please let me know which country you're currently residing in, so I can check whether there's orgs available there (I have an extensive list).

randyoftheinternet · 2023-11-11T11:22:13+00:00

You have to pick a reasonable perspective, as you already said you can't control the world. You can't control nor the tides nor the wind, the only thing you can do is be prepared for them. The only thing you can do for this subject is make sure you have a proper community with good value.

Being a man isn't always great as you detailed, but it still is pretty nice for some things. So appreciate those who do good deeds around you. You can't change the world, but you can still help those close to you.

Rod_Stiffwood · 2023-11-11T15:27:42+00:00

Hate is a taught behavior. Stop teaching it, it's that simple. I didn't stop trusting women after the 1st, 5th, or 10th. But it's happened enough times that I just lost my desire. I know all women aren't the same, but this generation makes it difficult.

PassionWeekly1387 · 2023-11-11T07:03:01+00:00

I appreciate your help

aerial_coitus · 2023-11-11T06:15:11+00:00

This is what you wanted.

SparkleCharm · 2023-11-11T06:33:08+00:00

If you are worried about the future of your children, you can choose to not procreate.

The only thing we can realistically do is create small communities of like-minded people in our parallel islands and worlds and try to live happily this way.

Rod_Stiffwood · 2023-11-11T13:57:35+00:00

Are you a guy?

Dashing2025 · 2023-11-11T21:39:32+00:00

Just vote for the right people.

Title	I don’t know what to do to help
Author	WeepingWillow_Lotus
Upvotes	29
Comments	26
Date	November 11, 2023 5:20 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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