In my extremely candid honest opinion, the thing this community could do better without is self pity. So much self pity. You want fairness in the juridical system? You want better lives? Make it happen. Get political, get active, get aggressive. The only way to get the life you want, is to step on some toes, read Nietzsche if you have doubts.Stop playing by other people’s rules, or play by them and when you have the opportunity or power, make your own rules. I just don’t get this wallowing in misery. Has this helped anyone? Have you ever considered that the reason the feminists are winning is because they are the most vocal and aggressive in their rhetorics? Maybe that is desirable. Like I said, I like this community because it anchors me in reality and provides valuable data, but there is so hard to see so many self pitiful people. It is not good for anyone, I understand raising awareness is important but I think that should not lead to self pity.