Been separated for 2 years, paperwork has been filed for divorce and ready for it to be over.

But my question is after losing so much from the divorce process and giving her pretty much everything. How long does it take to recover in your experience. Because I would like to have a game plan for the soon after. Mainly wanting to get back into a plot of land for the kiddos to have fun on, and build a shop for projects.

I will be honest she didn't contribute much to our finances, mostly just used my income for her pleasure, scenes the separation I have actually be able to save some money first time in the almost 10 years that we were together. But that isn't going to get me far to my goal anytime soon, but it feels like a feather in my cap to me.