What does it mean when your wife changes her social media bios to “(kids’ names)’ mom” instead of “(your name)’s wife”?

Dio_Brando_Joestar · 2018-02-16T10:07:39+00:00

she's cheating on you with your kids. next her bro.

Dadoma · 2018-02-16T08:34:42+00:00

ignore it and continue lifting + maybe apply dread game

kuck_kriller · 2018-02-16T09:20:22+00:00

Women love kids first :/

Natural

twonomore · 2018-02-16T12:14:32+00:00

Just signaling as she met someone and didn't tell him she is married. Is a lie of omission to the new branch...

Or, you made her mad and she is punishing you by publicly denieing you...

Or, you are not relevant in her life anynore...

There are a million reasons, don't fall into the drama trap... but always watch her behavior.

LBEB80 · 2018-02-16T11:20:43+00:00

Who cares? Get off social media and ignore all that shit.

DJVendetta · 2018-02-16T10:16:20+00:00

Dread game

Herdsengineers · 2018-02-16T15:46:38+00:00

i'm gonna go against the grain and say she might be getting a bit more into her role as mom and less her role as wife. my XW did this. women are programmed to pedestalize motherhood. it also comes with the side effect of devaluing fatherhood.

this can get into dangerous territory. i don't know enough based on one reddit post to say for certain, but the way you fight it is by demonstrating high value, that she can't ignore. in a marriage and parenting situation, you do that by building and demonstrating leadership and authority. but it's not an authority of tyranny (as in no "i'm the man, i'm in charge" stuff). instead, you build authority in your family by building and improving your competence as a man and father. in other words, get good at what you do. job wise - become the expert. at home, make good decisions, set a great example. be financially sound and responsible. make good parenting decisions. set a great example.

there's too much to go into in one post, but if you demonstrate and set a good example of high competence, they will naturally want to follow it. be the awesome role model for your wife and your kids. which incidentally also requires being the best version of yourself you can be regardless of all else, simply because you want to because you should value it.

vaqq1 · 2018-02-16T09:08:08+00:00

do you really care that much?

_schneewittchen · 2018-02-16T11:57:34+00:00

She loves her kids dude it’s not a big deal. If you really want everyone to know you’re married to her ask her to put both the kids and your name.

Title	What does it mean when your wife changes her social media bios to “(kids’ names)’ mom” instead of “(your name)’s wife”?
Author	NewNombreWhoDis
Upvotes	7
Comments	11
Date	February 16, 2018 8:26 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7xxeqw/what_does_it_mean_when_your_wife_changes_her/
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