Am I red pill?

Spiritual-Welcome657 · 2024-01-02T00:58:53+00:00

I’m a guy and also abstaining till Marriage.. a lot of red pill men who aren’t religious or not seriously religious as in a hypocrite are the ones who spew this bullshit lifestyle that contradicts their religion and shows they are self righteous and not so much righteous in intention.

LightOverWater · 2024-01-01T23:56:35+00:00

Most podcasts, youtube, TikTok are grifters... aka: people who don't know much about the red pill but will jump at the opportunity to use it to make a quick buck. They get most of it wrong anyways.

Read up on the wiki here and some of the older posts, especially Back to Basics

I don’t inherently see them as awful but an overly narcissistic man who comes home and wants dinner on the table ready is cringe.

Not sure where that's coming from but nobody here would tell you to marry a narcissist... quite the opposite actually. So you can see whatever source you're consuming is mischaracterizing it.

Jewelry_lover · 2024-01-01T21:31:31+00:00

Please stay away from the podcasts, especially the ones by the men.

I feel like I kind of resonate with you, I don’t necessarily care for feminism but I disagree with probably 80% of what these men say in podcasts. I was never hell bent on finding a man who will provide for me, i just wanted someone responsible, driven with similar goals as mine. However, I understand the importance of gender roles and how it shapes society for the best.

A good podcast recommendation would be Jordan Peterson. He’s changed my perspective a lot on relationship dynamics and self improvement.

Leonhart93 · 2024-01-02T01:12:55+00:00

They just talk in absolutist terms and it's kind of a a symptom of things getting really bad in recent times, as none of that was that needed 10-15y ago. A lot of filtering is required. You should listen to some of the more grounded things and perhaps pick the info that sounds right to you, and in that case it will have a high likelihood of actually being correct and give results.

Clipzy22 · 2024-01-02T02:21:15+00:00

Red pill evolved from traditional to more toxic ways of life. Red pill, as seen here, is still seen as traditional traditional.

RedPillDad · 2024-01-02T16:58:44+00:00

Traditionally, husbands needed to be the hardened ones. The woman could live a softer life (though not easier) at home with the children. With modern conveniences, home life has become far easier, to the point of boredom.

The red-pill metaphor is about taking the pill that wakes you up to reality versus the pleasant delusions of the blue-pill matrix.

A traditional woman did not require red-pill awareness. Her husband was the one who had to navigate the harsh realities of the outside world. My mother learned to drive in her 50's and soon gave up on it, not uncommon for her generation.

Modern women are more red pill in many ways, but many are caught up in control matrixes such as feminism and woke ideology. Career-driven women become battle-hardened like men. There's little room for femininity and softness.

Red pill podcasts sensationalize their arguments to gain traction. Their target audience tends to be disenfranchised young men. Their content is designed for provocation, making it appear barbaric and rendering it unbearable for most women.

There's more moderate content available. Alexander Grace is someone I've followed for years. I often share his videos with my wife, including his most recent one.

Your fight isn't to become red pill, it's to keep your femininity intact. Seems you're on a good path.

CellBig4354 · 2024-01-02T03:00:55+00:00

….. the one you women should all be listening to is Manifestelle on YouTube and even SheraSeven, NOT Jordan Peterson…. Because deep down these men think all the same, us women need to learn and understand how they think, unfortunately most men are not trying to find “love”, they want your youth, beauty, femininity, they want you to bear their children, they want you to care for them and the home, cook, clean, look perfect all the time, which BY THE WAY costs a lot, be in great shape while ALSO have a full time 100% job, while the only responsibility they have and the only thing that is really expected of them is a job. While everything is expected from the woman. Women are now doing everything. The only thing a man has always had was to PROVIDE for his woman and family. Now women are helping the man with that by doing 50/50 and ALSO have all the other responsibilities at home. Have you ever seen an instagram page for men encouraging them to be a “stay at home dad” cook clean wash the dishes do the laundry??? No??? But there are THOUSANDS of “boss babe” do it all yourself, don’t need no man, pay for yourself pages for women all over instagram. The truth is, men have it WAY too easy today! While so many women are burning out. It’s actually a thing today! Plus no wonder divorce rates are so high today compared to before, since NO WOMAN feels attractive under this much pressure, not even being able to take care of herself, while the man expects her to always be ready for him in the bedroom. And then there is Tinder and dating apps, where all some men have to do to get laid is to swipe right, have a small talk for a couple days and compliment her enough and he has her. Women, WAKE UP. Be on WOMENS side. EXPECT your man to provide. EXPECT your man to support you, financially. That’s LITERALLY the only thing expected of him. While you are giving him everything you have, your femininity, time, care and love for free!!! And you know what, a man is not even grateful for that. Men take that for granted. Men VALUE what they have to WORK for and sacrifice for. THAT is masculinity. And a man knows that, a man would ALWAYS provide for the right woman. WAKE UP. A woman’s time is MUCH MORE precious than a man’s time, since our biological clock is MUCH shorter. Don’t make a dusty waste your time. Of course the man is supposed to provide. And men know that deep down but won’t admit it since all men are designed to want the most by putting in the least. But they don’t respect women like that, they use women all the time. DO YOUR RESEARCH. Do what benefits WOMEN. Enough women are burnt out already.

Odd-Luck7658 · 2024-01-02T12:41:16+00:00

You don't need a label. You are what you are and that's way ok.

TheBunk_TB · 2024-01-02T13:49:40+00:00

Many podcasts are not good for anyone

There isn’t a purity test

AutoModerator · 2024-01-01T21:13:31+00:00

Title: Am I red pill?

Author Chickennuggetsloll

Full text: So for reference, I’m 18. recently , I’ve been watching a few “red pill” podcasts for educational purposes. Honestly, I disagreed with a lot of the core values.. and I don’t even consider myself a hardcore feminists. But maybe the ones I’m watching are way too extreme.

I practice abstinence until marriage and that’s pretty much it. Also, I don’t see the need for a man to provide me but I wouldn’t necessarily marry someone who did not have any work drive/career goals, and ambitions. I still want to work, provide for myself, and pursue my passions though. I’d love to travel the world, maybe direct a film and tbh I don’t think about kids all that often but I would love to raise them one day.

I’m very moderate with the whole gender roles thing, to be honest I don’t necessarily care. I grew up cooking with my mom and grandma, always had to keep the house clean, etc. I actually feel like women naturally have maternal instincts and naturally want to do these things for the people they care about.

I’m not sure why some of the core values of red pill relationships is such a turn off for me. I don’t inherently see them as awful but an overly narcissistic man who comes home and wants dinner on the table ready is cringe. Not into that. Dang I’m prob not red pill nvm

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Title	Am I red pill?
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Date	January 1, 2024 9:13 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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