Update on work accusations

gntlbastard · 2024-01-03T03:29:50+00:00

And this is why I never interact with women I work with on a personal level. They don't know anything about me outside of what I work on. My life outside of work they have no fucking idea about it.

denisc9918 · 2024-01-02T23:35:41+00:00

What an idiotic snowflake/karen sort of complaint. I remember your original post mate, I suspect you're in for a world of pain at this place. Your whole industry is just getting worse, might be time for a career rethink.

Fit_Mode5903 · 2024-01-03T02:48:29+00:00

My family plays that game with Fortune Cookies too, and I think a lot of people do. I guess it's rapidly becoming a relic of a better age when people weren't so caught up in fear & idiocy.

Fuzzy_Department2799 · 2024-01-03T06:42:14+00:00

And this is why all interactions with women at work are kept strictly professional. Even the ones you think are your friends can get offended over nothing. They will never see the double standards in their behavior.

zaiguy · 2024-01-03T03:57:13+00:00

Never ever talk to women at work unless it’s about something specific to work. Never be alone with a woman at work. Protect yourself.

plumberack · 2024-01-03T21:33:11+00:00

You should only be humorous with men or else your words will be used against you.

DMFan79 · 2024-01-03T00:43:04+00:00

In case you're wondering, they're called "Baci Perugina".

Regarding your situation, be strong and know there are people here who will support you when you need to talk.

Best of luck.

Low-Storage3794 · 2024-01-03T17:44:47+00:00

Jeez dood my brother has faced umpteen such complaints at his hospital from nurses.

He's so scared now that he speaks in monosyllables at work .

Men are gonna get the short end of the stick now atleast where HR is concerned it's sickening to see such shite happening as a female but what can one do.

elebrin · 2024-01-03T14:35:14+00:00

I proceeded to share that my family likes to make fortune cookies more fun by adding the words "in bed" at the end.

You made a sex reference at work and thought that was OK? Really? That's pretty boneheaded. It's stupid that we have to operate this way but if you wouldn't say it in front of the most prudish grandmother on the planet, you shouldn't be saying it at work.

Admirable-Egg9583 · 2024-01-03T04:01:09+00:00

I think the difference is she was confiding in you with something personal and you were commenting on something with a sexual connotation.

I think she’s a little ridiculous in her reaction, but considering she’s a virgin and inexperienced, she has no boundaries as to what’s acceptable and she might have been raised in a way that shamed her regarding sexual comments.

Most people wouldn’t take that in a bad way but in her case and sensitivity, she took it badly. Another thing to consider is that she might have been embarrassed for sharing that with you and then your comment may have given her an assumption that you were alluding to what she told you..

Deathbystupidity · 2024-01-03T23:53:00+00:00

Could they be trying to push you out so they can have an all women team?

Title	Update on work accusations
Author	VegetableCar2528
Upvotes	157
Comments	28
Date	January 2, 2024 11:18 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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