I still have 50% custody of my children, however last Wednesday we had court because my ex filled some claim and she was awarded Domiciliary parent. while we had no Domiciliary before.

My ex is like all seeing eyes, a literal hawk and ask about everything and escalate every situation, Since our divorce we have been doing nothing but arguing, I bent over in 90% of situations. but she always want her way, the court said it was me who wasn't playing ball while all I wanted to do is moving on with my life and raise a kids without getting 12 messages a day from my ex.

I feel really defeated and that the court system cheated me. I felt like I was dreaming and no one hear me and anything she said was fact, I snipped at my lawyer after that and told him to go fuck himself because I felt alone and felt like I had no representation.

He kept saying it's no big deal and maybe that will make her stop harassing me. I am in such a fucking dark place right now. My ex did that to retaliated because I have a new GF and since she been making my life miserable, It sucks that now she has the domiciliary parent and get to make all decisions and I am not sure how to change that.

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