I think the red pill and blue pill have relationships all wrong

I see the red pill as recipe for a toxic, resentful, dictator straight out of north Korea relationship. I say this because most of the advice the red pill environment gives out is more likely to end with great resentment rather than the feeling of mutual peace, love, genuine respect and care that relationships should have.

I also think the blue pill side tend to be lilly livered when it comes to the problems in modern dating but still build a healthier relationship dynamic than the red pill environment could ever.

I think the ideal balance would be 60-40/70-30(blue pill - red pill)