Old school veteran of the seduction community. I attribute the seduction community to my huge gain in social skills and my ability to travel the world and make friends and meet beautiful women all over. Any guys here around my age? Mid 30s.

Downtown-Button-9713 · 2022-11-06T20:34:17+00:00

Nothing to do with this post but why have there been no posts on this subreddit for four days?

HerrAdventure · 2022-11-04T03:31:39+00:00

Young 30's and can say the game has changed a slight bit. Activities are typical, if you can produce good photos dating apps are lucrative. Depending on how friendly your community is, I find a friendlier environment produces better cold approaches. Being in your mid 30's, you are prime target beef my dude. You get attention from young 20's-young 40's.

I will say a good portion of women I've met are in hot pursuit for moving forward to the next phase. More or less they are young 30's and their biological clock has a time on it, their words not mine.

At our age we are in the happy zone from what I've gathered.

potatoeswithfries · 2022-11-04T08:39:44+00:00

Yeah, I'm 36, got introduced to the game in early 2010.

That would make me pretty oldschool, but I still consider myself a newbie, or maybe intermediate at best, because - to make a long story short - I never approached much in that initial period, married the first girl I picked up, and only started going out more and practicing seduction after I kicked her out in February 2019.

Game never got me laid like a rockstar, as in, I never got to the point of fucking a different girl every week or anything like that, but it did change my life. It got me from being a guy who was afraid he'd never have a girlfriend again (back in 2010) to being a guy who has three concurrent sex partners and is pretty much never lonely, and who never has to worry about being alone again.

paradisemorlam · 2022-11-05T10:56:47+00:00

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atomant88 · 2022-11-05T13:02:16+00:00

Yeah I'm 34 and started game when i was 22. Big life changer. Ive been doing it on and off since. The game hasn't really changed tho. Just keep applying your skills and you'll be fine.

norwegiandoggo · 2022-11-04T06:48:36+00:00

I'm mid 30s too. Entered the seduction community around the time "The Game" was out for a year or so. I am grateful for a lot of the stuff I learned, success I had, and friends I made. However, the community also gave me some bad and unhealthy views on women and what's important in dating and relationships. I got some misogynistic views from it and it felt a lot like a penis measuring contest - who could bang the most girls and be the most careless cold and calculated Alfa macho man. Also a lot of manipulation in a negative sense (I win, and I don't care if she also wins). Remember terms like "Always be closing" and "overcoming last minute resistance"? Some of those concepts disgust me today as they seem very rape-y. A lot of the community is very cult-like. Using a secret language, seeing people outside the group as losers. Having some extreme views etc. It is very close to the incel community situation. But I still love to talk about dating and relationships and the skills needed to achieve both, with much more of a focus on ethics and ensuring always that both parties are happy. I'm happy to shoot the shit.

ArugulaTop8550 · 2022-11-03T23:40:13+00:00

Where did you travel?

Smiley_Overl0rd · 2022-11-06T15:32:37+00:00

Ok, not in my 30's but just wanted to ask what u senior gamers think is possible body count to get in a month from your experience?

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-11-04T00:21:14+00:00

Not in my 30s yet, but can relate to your story. What's your lay count?

epimpstyle · 2022-11-04T12:21:29+00:00

I'm curious why have you stopped?

Aren't you married? If not, why not?

How long have you stopped to approach women?

Why you are back in the game?

Why do you consider "dating game is different" ? Aren't women's mindsets the same?

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