[FIELD REPORT] First time pulling a native Asian girl

Stats:

Age: 29

Race: Eastern Asian

Height: 5'7

Location: Las Vegas

Preface: I've been out of game for like a week so I was feeling kind of rusty this night. Went out solo and sober. I don't drink anymore as of 3 months ago. I used to drink like 2-3 beers a night but now it's 100% sober, just for health reasons. It was a weekday so all the local pick up bros were at the same club. Volume wasn't that great. I probably approached 10-15 sets before finding this native asian girl.

Set:

1. I was walking through the "hallway" and this gorgeous Swedish girl was walked the opposite direction (we're walking towards each other). This girl was super hot. Like very stereotypical with the blonde hair and bright blue eyes. I stop her and open with a push pull. She laughs and seems very receptive. I make cold reads until the conversation hooks. I define hook to be when she asks me a question about myself. We chat for 3 minutes. She states that she has to get a drinks real quick so we exchange numbers. She texted me later asking "where are you?" but now by I pulled Ashley already. Ugh, I'm still kind of sad about this :(
2. It was approaching past 3am and I was pretty over it, however, I try to push to the end whenever possible just because you never know what could happen. I decided to make a final round and found two Asian girls at the edge of the club. Now, I've approached many Asian girls before and it usually doesn't go anywhere. Asians are the most difficult girls to pull for me regardless if they're American or native Asian girls (majority of my pulls are white and latinas). Idk what it is. They're very cliquey and protective of each other. They're like one inseparable unit. The guys are always cockblocking. Anyways, so I didn't have high hopes for this set to begin with just due to my past reference experiences.

I approach the 2 girls but only open the pretty (target) girl. She's a cute girl with a nice slim body. I'll call her Ashley in this FR. I start with a push pull cold read and then moved onto a location cold read. I guessed that she's from Taiwan and she got super excited and shocked that I guessed right. She was like "omggggg how did you knowwww, tell me how you knewwww". Lol, I didn't think it was that impressive. She was obviously an East Asian girl so that means Chinese, Korean, or Japanese. By her facial anesthetics and style, it was not Korean or Japanese so that leaves Chinese. Chinese people originate from 2 countries so.... it was a 50/50 lmao. Girls get impressed by the most mundane shit sometimes. Anyways, that location cold read really hooked the set and gave me alot of jump off points for a more genuine interaction. Turns out she's from Taiwan but lives in Tokyo so I was genuinely interested because I would love to live in Tokyo or another country in general. There's just so much to experience outside of America.

We chatted for like 10 minutes. It was a very natural conversation. I sprinkle a bit of game/flirting here and there. For example, when girls ask me where are my friends, I respond with "Oh theyre over there (points somewhere) talking to some cute girls so I decided I should do the same". What this line does is that it establishes premise without having high intent. I'll talk more about this in the take aways section. As we're chatting, I'm also simultaneously doing physical escalation as always.

I tried to pull Ashley by saying let's get drinks else where less loud. She said she cant leave her friends. I told her to tell her friends she's just gonna grab a drink with me real quick. She goes and talks to her friends. Idk what theyre talking about cause it's loud af in the club. At this point, I wasn't expecting much. She comes back to me saying her friends are down to go get drinks. I'm thinking in my head "well it's better to pull the whole group than to pull nothing at all". So I grab her hand and lead her outside of the club. We go to the bar area just outside of the club. She talks to her friends again and at this point, I havent even met her friends so I decided to interject and introduce myself as an attempt to do some group management.

To my surprise, Ashley was trying to self isolate herself and go hang out with me. I was like oh shit.... plot twist. Now, I've been through many situations like this. Basically when the girl actively fights to stay with you, it's a wrap boys. At this very moment, I was like sweet... I'm just gonna lay back and chill. So they talk this through, share locations with each other, said bye, and that was it. As we're walking to my car, Ashley was showing some LMR like "omg am I gonna be safe going with you?". Now this is a very legitimate concern. She's a foreign girl in a foreign country going home with a foreign guy who she just met 20 minutes ago. So I told her she can take a picture of my ID and send it to her friends which she did. After that, she felt more comfortable. We went back to my place and yall know how it goes ;)

Take Aways:

1. Persistency: I should have told the Swedish girl that I'll go with her to the bar. I have an internal problem with following girls because I feel like it would make me appear needy. However, the issue with that is once she leaves in this chaotic night club, you aint gonna find her again so your best chance is to stick with her. What I should have done was say "alright I'll go with you, I need to grab a water anyways". Another internal conflict with this dilemma is that I like to give girls an exit so trying to stick with them wouldnt give them an exit. You just gotta calibrate accordingly during your set. If the set isnt going well and she says she gotta go then let her go but if she seems receptive then try to persist and stay in set.
2. The more well rounded a person you are, the better your cold reads will be. These days, I try to learn something new every time I'm in set just to make me a more well rounded person. I can use the knowledge from previous sets and use it to my advantage in future sets.
3. Intent vs Premise: When I first started game, I operated with high intent which I later found out was bad. Good game should be low intent and high premise. You want to establish the PREMISE that this is a MAN TO WOMAN interaction. High intent lines such as "hi you're gorgeous. I wanted to meet you", gives away alot of your leverage. It establishes the premise of a man to woman interaction but then the girl knows she has you in the bag already. There's no suspense or mystery. That's why better game is to establish premise. This is basically what is known as flirting. Imagine if you were going into a job interview and the employer said "we've decided to hire you already based on you resume but let's just do this interview anyways". You would change how you interview now right?
4. Let her champion you: I told Ashley to tell her friends that she wants to get a drink with me. This is better than me telling her friends because I'm a nobody to them. It's significantly more impactful when it comes from the girl.
5. Pull the whole group: You have a zero percent chance of fucking her in the club. You need to pull. Ideally pull her by herself, but if you can't pull her by herself then pull the whole group.
6. You want to make her feel safe and comfortable: Ashley was hesitant to leave the casino with me but I overcame that objection by giving her my ID. It made her feel more safe and comfortable with me. When she got back to my place, she showed some LMR because she's not used to hook up culture. The key to overcoming LMR is to make the girl feel safe and comfortable. I basically said, "yeah whatever youre comfortable with". I would never pressure a girl or anything sus like that. I honestly dont care. I got laid once that day already from my FWB. That's the benefits of an abundance reality.