Do you guys feel weird going places just to cold approach?

5_7pickup · 2022-09-16T05:48:41+00:00

No, you need to go solely for the objective of meeting women or else youll never get any results.

This is a skill at the end of the day and if you want to improve this skill then you need to set aside dedicated time to practicing and refining this skill.

It’s like if you want to get better at the drums but you only practice the drums for like 5 minutes whenever its convenient for you instead of dedicating 2 hours a day to practice.

Men who operate with purpose and objective will always outperform those who dont.

Bob_The_Beelder · 2022-09-16T05:48:27+00:00

I think its beautiful when a person has an ambition and he goes to conquer it, a lot of people would make excuses that they got no place to meet a girl, or not enough opportunity, you guys are just making yourself some. btw if you guys are from LA I would actually love to join you on these 😂

SafeSetsOnly · 2022-09-16T06:19:47+00:00

Are you guys in south florida? Would love some buddies to do this stuff with

banditcleaner2 · 2022-09-16T15:30:38+00:00

It doesn’t have to be predatory as long as you aren’t a predator. Imho most women probably dislike cold approach in general not because it’s weird or creepy to do on its face, but because there are too many men that ignore rejection hints and keep pushing after rejection. If a girl is very clearly not receptive to your body language and what you say, perhaps leave her alone and move on.

If you can’t leave a girl alone that rejected you, and keep pushing for more when it’s socially clear she doesn’t want it, then you are being predatory and shouldn’t do it.

But if you’re approaching and empathetic to how a woman can feel danger if a man she doesn’t know is trying to keep pushing when she’s clearly rejected you, then I see nothing wrong with going for that express purpose.

2022-09-16T21:17:33+00:00

While I see your point... Just keep it between us lol. Practice is practice. I sharpen my skills by asking random women wherever I'm at. But every now and then I walk into a grocery store or something just to see if I find anyone cute. It's basically the same thing

revente · 2022-09-16T08:32:26+00:00

Friend and I (25M) started going to a bookstore just to spot girls and approach. He’s approached three and got a number.

Well yeah, honestly it's quite weird. Bu says weird is bad?

Also why not to choose a club or a bar which are designated places for meeting girls?

zapadz · 2022-09-16T08:41:34+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OJKiFisdi5g

PowerLifterVagSlayer · 2022-09-16T09:47:57+00:00

epimpstyle · 2022-09-16T10:54:43+00:00

- What about to run on the other side of the road just because you see a nice girl ?

- What if you take a bus because you saw a nice girl ?

Just two examples I did this year.

In the first case it was no luck because when I was close to her she just met with her boyfriend... from this experience I can tell you that doing movement (physical exercises) will help you to approach anyone, you will forget about approach anxiety. When I was there I even told to his boyfriend that I run over 20 meters after his girl friend but now I'll take a beer, we made a fist bump, he was not upset and the girl said "too bad..."

In the next case, I told to a girl that I took the bus for her and I have no bus ticket ... she was underage... although I thought she is over 20. Start talking to a stranger in a bus is very easy because she can not ignore you, she is in front of you, she will say something :-)

It was a shame what I did? Not at all... it was a life experience learning to not put that much effort. If you already did some effort to know a girl, now you will be happy if you meet a girl on the street knowing that all you have to do is to start talking to her without running on the streets, taking the bus or entering in a boring bookstore.

2022-09-16T15:16:00+00:00

Not only does it feel weird, it is absolutely weird.

Chicagoj1563 · 2022-09-16T15:26:02+00:00

Is there anything of interest at the bookstore? Take an interest in new books, even if its just to look at it in the bookstore.

If you go to the grocery store, go more often and just pick up some produce. Its much fresher the sooner you consume it, so go to the grocery store more often. Better yet, go to another grocery store that may have items you don't usually see at yours.

You can probably find reasons to go to these places outside of meeting women. But, I have wandered around too and it can feel weird. Its easy to get in your head about it. Give your self a reason to be there, buy 1 thing, or check out something when you are there.

ace_qk · 2022-09-17T03:15:16+00:00

Get a book every time you go, then when you’re at home in the dark alone you can make the choice whether to read and class this all as personal development or close your eyes and accept it as degeneracy

Title	Do you guys feel weird going places just to cold approach?
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Date	September 16, 2022 5:08 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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