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[–]JF803 25 points26 points27 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Just… don’t? What the fuck is this post
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[–]JF803 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I wouldn’t do anything. There’s nothing to do. Don’t hang out with them or give them any time or attention beyond work. It’s pretty straight forward and simple.
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[–]JF803 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
This post is complete attention seeking behavior. It’s low quality and pointless.
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[–]JF803 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I wish you well mate
[–]MayhemReignsTV 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What in the world? I read that post and it’s a totally different situation. The situation in that post is a guy who just doesn’t have the balls to do anything about it when a girl likes him. It’s a great post but reminds me of how I was as a teenager into my early 20s, sadly. You simply don’t want the attention and are trying to turn her away in a polite manner. Just simply tell her you don’t like to mess around with coworkers. Whether you want to invite her to hang out as friends is a judgment call on your part. A lot of it depends on her. I probably would give it a few days at least before giving the invite so she doesn’t get the wrong idea 😉
[–]zapadz 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
Just stop responding or friendzone her
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[–]zapadz 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
No, you can say “thanks but I’m not interested atm” or something.
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[–]zapadz 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
So? You said you aren’t in the mood.
[–]zapadz 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Then say you just want to be friends.
[–]JackRabbit- 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, you should definitely sacrifice yourself for others. It doesn’t matter what you want, only what she wants.
See how that sounds? Just turn her down.
[–]MayhemReignsTV -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s called tact or the art of speechcraft. You should be able to turn her down without deliberately ripping her heart out of her chest. She might be hurt about getting turned down, even if you do it correctly. You can’t do nothing about her feelings. You had nothing to do with her liking you in that way and leading her on is just going to hurt her much worse and might even get yourself hurt. I get where you’re coming from, in a way. You don’t want to mix work and romance. I’ve been there before man and it can be quite awkward when things end sometimes, depending on her maturity level, largely. After my last work romance, I swore never again but now that I am an independent contractor, I have no coworkers 😛
[–]NinetailsDestruction 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Stop being brainless and care about what they think. You care about the most unnecessary thing. Stop texting them as anything more than friends.
[–]NinetailsDestruction 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You may not actually care about them g. You just don’t want to hurt them. It’s a difference I think.
Also don’t say you don’t want to “turn her off”. Makes it seem like you like her. That’s why I said that.
[–]NinetailsDestruction 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
But aren’t you hurting in the process by not being treated like a friend?
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[–]No_Sympathy1577 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Insane post
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Its called telling someone how you feel ..
[–]agroupofone 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If girls are hitting you I can see why you are upset. Have you tried asking them to stop hitting you?
[–]AstralLondor 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Class response.
[–]JustSomeRandomGuy36 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you sure of your sexuality?
[–]dobbs1997 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
lmao based on your other responses I feel like this isn’t true….& if it is then idk man, maybe use your words and tell em you’re not interested…Idk tho
[–]Sure-Wish3240 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Tell her you have to focus one work, studies or sports. Promise that when you get back to her you makes sure her wait was worth it.
Or something like that. The idea is to give out the impression that you are a man with a purpose in life, not a fuckboy.
And when you get back to her, fuck her brains out.
[–]autofillgreenbuddy 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro if this is real, it sounds like you’re having problems with being a people pleaser. You might want to seek some therapy. It’ll help you stand firmer in your wants and desires while managing the guilt that you’re feeling.
[–]CocoBabeinNYC 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think you were raped bruh.
[–]darkmexaya 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The cap is strong with this one
[–]Plane_Reflection6053 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just be cold mate, they get it
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