How to know when to kiss a girl?

Technical_Hawk8547 · 2022-08-28T23:35:10+00:00

IMO you should always end the first date with a kiss at the very least. Even better is a kiss halfway through the date, so you don’t have all this pressure building up at the end.

To me it sounds like you have very little experience. Which there’s nothing wrong with. Me included would always wait for the “perfect” time for a first kiss when I was inexperienced. The reality is you get to decide whenever that is.

I’ll tell you EXACTLY what to do next time you’re on a date.

While you’re going for a walk. Just stop in place and face her directly. Or even better stand in front of her. Look into her eyes and don’t say anything. Look down at her lips, then back up at her eyes. Any girl will understand what is about to happen at this point. You’ll notice she probably won’t say anything either during this time as she is getting ready for what’s about to happen. Then lean in and BOOM you’ve got your first kiss. You also set the pace and made the moment yourself.

To this day I’ve only been rejected for doing this once, but I didn’t let it effect me and ultimately got a kiss later on that same night. If she wants to go on a walk with you after the bar it’s so you guys can be alone. She wants you to make a move mate. She’s probably going crazy wondering why you haven’t yet.

You got this mate!

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-08-28T23:52:20+00:00

You are supposed to flirt with her to warn her, like:

You know when you smile at me like that, i get so distracted, like i can’t stop staring at your lips”

Saying things like that is flirting and it’s down to lead into romantic tension with the girl.

She isn’t gonna give you any signs, you just have to express where you are going with your flirting, and based on how she takes your comments proceed into caressing her hands, looking into her lips, biting your own lips with desire, and telling her what you are liking abo her and how that’s causing you to desire her more and more.

So you have to switch the conversations into just that, what you like about her, in what way she is causing you to desire her, you stop talking about other things and focus on the topic of what you desire about her.

revente · 2022-08-29T00:33:03+00:00

Kiss when you want to kiss. Not 'when you're finally comfortable to kiss' or when you think 'the girl is ready'.

2022-08-29T07:54:16+00:00

Kisses are not happening out of nowhere, most of the time. You need to be able to be very close to her, keep eye contact, hold her body. When you overcome these barriers, just find nice place to be little intimate where you can deeply focus on yourselves. Sit on a bench, shoulder to shoulder, look her straight into the eyes, lower your voicetone, start slightly flirty conversation, you can change position or play with push-pull body language and watch her reactions if she cooperates.

zapadz · 2022-08-29T00:17:46+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjpgbomald8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fzKZeaCa9lc

MissionAd399 · 2022-08-30T05:41:21+00:00

Always go for a first kiss on a first date to gauge interest. If she’s pulling you away to go on a walk thats perfect time to take her to a dark (but safe) corner and makeout, or the car. Grab her hand and lead her to whichever spot you choose, lead her as if you’re going there just to kiss, when you get there, initiate.

kettlebell_workout · 2022-08-28T23:41:51+00:00

You know in the movies, they always show first kiss somehow special. Usually, they are in a moment where everything slows down. Although, movies are not a reality, but in this case they have a point.

Meaning, that you won't be able to kiss if you are not in the moment. So either you can wait that moment which may never come, or you can create it yourself.

Like stop walking, look at the sea, stars or whatever. Sit down, put her on your lap. Then when talking slow down your voice, look at her lips, then at the eyes, then repeat. If she feels it, then she will reciprocate, if not then she will get defensive, like moves away from you, or starts walking, or do something else which indicates that she is not ready. In that case you abort the mission, if there are no signals here being defensive, then put your hands on her neck/head, and go for it.

BlackVignu · 2022-08-29T11:29:04+00:00

Wait untill she kisses you first

atomant88 · 2022-08-29T12:13:41+00:00

ask for consent and you cant go wrong

rockandroll93 · 2022-08-31T10:21:31+00:00

Sometimes you just need to look into their eyes and just feel it when it feels right. Thats how it happened for me last year when I went out with a Venezuelan girl. Well, she asked me if I ever kissed anyone and we just did it and it was simultaneously natural.

Title	How to know when to kiss a girl?
Author	Verrati873
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Comments	15
Date	August 28, 2022 10:57 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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