how do i ask someone out without sounding too forward?

atomant88 · 2022-08-08T23:14:12+00:00

being forward is not a bad thing. be forward! just also be polite and respectful. my very first message i ask them out on a date. 'i really dig your vibe can i take you out sometime?' just something that easy. i want them to know i want to meet up right away. they usually say 'sure. lets just talk for a bit first'. but its important to set the expectation of a date early. dont let them waste your time.

Elbynerual · 2022-08-09T00:37:34+00:00

No such thing as too forward. Guys appreciate honesty

grindforthegold · 2022-08-08T23:45:36+00:00

lmao why don’t you use the app for 10 minutes get swarmed with matches and then realize it’s insanely easy for girls and no one is actually gonna think you’re desperate

kettlebell_workout · 2022-08-08T23:31:10+00:00

Instead of asking these questions over here, you should ask yourself:

"Why am I using those apps?", "What do I want?" "Do I want casual sex?", "Am I looking for relationship?" , "Do I want to improve my SA?"

Answer those questions and use the Dating App appropriately.

E.g. If you want to have just casual sex.

Then, what is the point of talking about hobbies, politics etc, ask the most important things like his size, whether he will go down on you, stuff like this.

You tailor your questions and your actions based on the GOAL you want to achieve.

searinox2012 · 2022-08-09T02:14:26+00:00

”Netflix and chill?”

Fate-in-haze · 2022-08-09T03:36:53+00:00

Do you want a boyfriend or casual sex, the advice we would give you would be dependant on what you want.

incognito3107 · 2022-08-09T07:49:36+00:00

If you already have fun and meaningful conversation, you can casually suggest that it would be even better to do some activities together in real life.

Sex just happens, most of the time. If you enjoy touching yourselves, escalating your intimacy, then you will eventually release your sexual desire. Just do it gradually and naturally.

Title	how do i ask someone out without sounding too forward?
Author	shyelizabeth18
Upvotes	0
Comments	8
Date	August 8, 2022 11:08 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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