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Bgy4Lyfe · 2022-08-08T16:24:00+00:00

She probably wasn't as interested in you as you were in her. It happens, nothing really to change upfront.

creamyturtle · 2022-08-08T16:33:32+00:00

girls are weird, they want what they cant have. your enthusiasm probably made you look desperate, especially with the prompt texts. next time act aloof and try to ask her questions instead of talking. get her number then ignore her for a day or two, that drives girls crazy

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-08-08T18:16:24+00:00

Because even if you do everything right ultimately you don’t have control over how a woman feels about you or what she does. It’s called illusion of control thinking that if you press x y z in a keyboard then she will behave like a computer and execute the command that you want.

Also here are all the things you did wrong:

Your conversations aren’t sexually charged, meaning there was never sexual tension.
You didn’t establish that you were hitting in her, instead your proposals and invitations just felt no different than when you talk to a male friend or your sister. Asking her to get a yoghurt is a friendly stuff, and you also don’t mention why you truly want to meet her again. You don’t hit on her, you don’t make it man to woman, you make it sound like it’s just a friendly hangout.
You hug. Hugs are for friends. Don’t hug girls you want to hit on. Either kiss on the cheek, or something that makes it more clear what you want.

So basically you came across as her new gay best friend, because you keep hiding your sexual desire. You have a problem of not creating sexual tension with girls you want to fuck. You hang out with her and it’s no different than hanging out with your sister.

and that happens because you are afraid of sounding creepy, of sounding like a perv, so you play it safe.

But unfortunately for you, you have to be willing to risk coming across as a perv at least to learn how far you can get away with before the girl gets defensive.

You need to be willing to make things PG-18 and so far you keep making them PG-13. Your conversations with a girl you are hitting on, shouldn’t be suitable for all audiences, it should be for adult audiences only, if you know what i mean.

usernamelrdytaken · 2022-08-08T16:24:48+00:00

Sounds like in the last paragraph you gave yourself the answer? It’s a tough place to come from but if you feel like that’s the reason, others will definitely sense the vibe too.. work on yourself for some more time until you’re really unshakably self confident and trust the process that this doesn’t affect you as much in the future

alwaystostadas · 2022-08-08T16:32:37+00:00

Well you at least u waited to double text, that’s the most one can do at that point. But don’t forget that most girls won’t shoot down a guy directly. Which is why it’s leaves some dazed and confused, just keep going forward.

2022-08-08T17:35:17+00:00

You just move on to the next girls (please not the deliberately incorrect plural grammar here - it was intentional).

Robofrogg1 · 2022-08-08T18:24:46+00:00

You can do everything right and still not work out. Just how life is. However, if I had to guess it sounds like you put out serious friendship vibes. Next time, be more direct, flirt more, and try to be less boring.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-08-08T16:51:15+00:00

Well, you met her then waited a month to take her phone number. Then started texting random stuff. So she figured out by the time you get to making a move to have sex she will be an old hag with her tits hanging by her belly button.

2022-08-08T17:27:08+00:00

In this dating climate, never expect to hear back from anyone, no matter how much you clicked.

jugglerraven · 2022-08-08T17:39:35+00:00

She was just being nice.

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