Girl I was talking to for a bit ghosted me after a convo me and her had about “us”, I asked what’s going on she said she’s going through stuff and isn’t talking to anyone, just to find out she’s reconnecting with her ex.

themannnn223 · 2022-07-25T18:31:06+00:00

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CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-25T18:54:23+00:00

Women are socialized to never confront people directly especially men, because they don't want to disappoint them and hurt them. That's why virtually every woman comes up with the exact same excuses and BS to say "I'm not sexually interested in you". It's always stuff like "I'm not in the headspace for a relationship, I need to spend time finding myself, etc." only idiots take these on their face value because even the most depressed and stressed person likes having sex. It is is literally the driving force of our species. But yeah, when a woman starts saying this it means either an ex is back in the picture or she has found someone else.

slicklol · 2022-07-25T20:30:06+00:00

Women don’t know what they want. They live in the moment until they hit the wall and then most guys are no longer interested in them.

themannnn223 · 2022-07-26T01:11:35+00:00

Bruh people lie for a million reasons. Who gives a shit just move on and date someone who is mature enough to be honest.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-07-25T18:34:12+00:00

Why lie? Because dating isn’t a fair game, it’s actually more like a war. The strategy of each person in the dating world isn’t cooperative. It’s selfish, where people only think of what’s best for them and maintaining their options open, even if it means leaving you hanging.

themannnn223 · 2022-07-25T19:25:40+00:00

don't worry about it dude, they have millions of opportunities, next time a chick ghosts you and she decides to hit you back up, do yourself a favor and DO NOT talk to her

Evaporate3 · 2022-07-26T00:49:56+00:00

Don’t take it too personal. Just move on.

willgo-waggins · 2022-07-26T02:24:57+00:00

They always lie about that shit.

I gotta be honest I have yet to have a woman be straight with me and it’s why I am very leery of any involvement more than fucking with any chick who is “recently” broken up or divorced.

The fact is that the majority of women are terrible monkey branchers. So they aren’t actually through with the relationship or marriage they just like you or you look like a good option or you fuck her really well/turn her on.

So they try you out then when ex plays the “so sorry/poor me/miss you” game they go trotting back leaving you high and dry and wondering WTF happened.

fazzavich · 2022-07-26T05:58:03+00:00

Cut contact and walk away. You made the right decision. It's time society made women accountable for their horrible and disgusting decision making.

ElTuffo · 2022-07-25T21:24:53+00:00

If you were still just in the “talking to for a bit” phase does she owe you an explanation? Does she owe you anything?

Technically she didn’t even lie, she said she was going through some stuff, which - trying to figuring it out with an ex is “going through stuff”.

That you even feel this way shows that YOU have a way to go. Let it go bro, this is nothing.

burncushlikewood · 2022-07-26T06:08:51+00:00

I see a lot of posts on here of guys getting ghosted or ditched! You should be playing the numbers game, don't get discouraged if one woman isn't interested, if you approach 30 women and bang one of them that's a 3% success rate, but if you approach 300 then that's 10 times the amount which will increase your conversions. Don't get hung up over one woman there are plenty of fish in the sea

cronasminate · 2022-07-26T06:16:16+00:00

So you were talking to you ex about how talking to her ex is not a good thing?

cobraCL · 2022-07-26T10:46:25+00:00

Sorry that happened to you, was a really shitty move. Its not okay to play people like that.

I read in one of your replies that you ended things with her, that's really good. As much as it may sting, you stood up for your dignity and dodged a bullet. You deserve better and I'm glad you know it.

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