Before I say anything, I just want to say that I'm not quite confident yet. I still question things and interpret too much into some things. But I've gotten good at faking it. In the last 2 months, I have had several girls come up to me and tell me that they would like to kiss me at that moment. Or that girls as a whole are coming up to me instead of me coming up to them. And I'm not bragging about that, it's just a change that I've noticed a lot during this time. I used to be rather reserved and quiet, but I actually like to be the center of attention and now I don't care what others think. And the others notice that too. Not much has changed in my appearance. I might look a little better than average, but I pay attention to my clothes and my style. And that makes a big difference when you're in a group that pays less attention to style. A few rings were enough to get comments on my appearance, and I have long practiced looking others in the eye during a conversation. All I'm saying is that it really doesn't take much to not only be more attractive to girls, but to have a different look in general. Just the fact that I've gotten good at faking my confidence has made me more confident. It generally helps more in life if you know what charisma you have.