I (22F) have a very specific type of man I am attracted too. My taste is not niche tough. I like tall, brunette, older, dominant, succesful and passionate men who are providers (mind you I am financially stable on my own but I crave being spoiled).

However rationally I know it would be difficult to come across my prince charming. The problem is I just cannot settle for less. I try to look for "decent" slightly above the average guys but they do not turn me on. I cannot fake interest so during dates I have lukewarm approach (typically the men I date ask me if I am tired) which results in either frustration, disinterest or very dull hookup and then I ghost them or they ghost me.

I am also very introverted and independent person which means I am not really tailored for clingy relationship and sharing the whole life together but I do want some kind of LTR and romance in my life. How can I become more enthusiastic about dating and having sex with mediocre 50/50 type of relationship men?