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[–]SPENCEandtonic 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You could always tease her by saying something like..
“A girls drink order tells me everything about her”
When she asks what hers means make it slightly sexual like..
“9 out of 10 girls who drink x are those sensitive, likes to cuddle and drink hot tea type of girls.”
She’ll respond to this innocent accusation and maybe even ask you..
“What’s the 1 out if 10”
Then just say, “you know, the ones that like their hair pulled”
This is just some on the spot example, but I think something like this works well.
Go get them bah-tenda
[–]Zhai 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Which one am I?
Wouldn't you like to know, weather boy
[–]focus_flow69 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You ever have a close buddy where you would rib on and joke around with and know they wouldn't get offended and it was all in good fun?
Do exactly that but add in sexual references and jokes and maintain strong eye contact and physical escalation.
[–]VisionsOfVisions 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Being at work is your obstacle for escalating because you can’t ignore your job otherwise you’ll lose it. So you would have to invite her to spend time with you when you get off work.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I know this sounds counterintuitive and a lot of guys will disagree, but I don’t mind working my way into the friend zone. Depending on the situation it can be beneficial, not all the time, but depending on the circumstances being in the friend zone is like being on the 30 yard line. You’re closer to the end zone. It really depends on the type of woman you’re trying to hookup with, sometimes you need to establish a connection first.
[–]sentient_sasquatch 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I relate to this. Personally I find it hard to go from nothing to intimate myself, so god knows how the woman feels. I'm talking outside of the drunken nightlife environment. Establishing a friendship first (with sexual undertones where possible) gives it the best chance of being longer lasting, assuming thats what you're/OP is after.
[–]shxbxx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Focus on the sexual aspect of the environment, use it in the conversation
[–]redditculture 4 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
What are some sexual aspects in an everyday environment
[–]shxbxx -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Observe for yourself, do you want to exhaust me? Sex isn't just sex, it's included in every interaction you have with your target
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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's really just an excuse to flirt, like you can look at her and say, "Your coffee smells so good." Then offer to exchange coffee, letting your fingers touch her in the process. etc
[–]ElegantGary 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sense of humor is priceless.
I’m not a great looking guy, but I landed my hot ass wife with it!
Insinuate sexual stuff but leave enough room for interpretation that she wonders if you meant innocent thing or dirty thing.
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