Where is a good place for a guy to approach women?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-06-28T12:29:59+00:00

I have been told that going out and looking for something like this to happen is a bad strategy and it's best to wait and let those moments/opportunities come to you but idk I've been trying that strategy for over a decade with absolutely no luck.

Lol, who the hell told you that? That strategy can work if you are a woman, but not if you are a man. Man have to approach and go for who they want, not just sit there waiting for nothing to happen.

So how do most people meet woman?

Cold approaching anywhere, gyms by being indirect talking about exercises or asking for help and then switching to personal stuff, parks, beaches, public squares if people are sitting down, streets, malls, libraries casually talking about a book then switching to personal stuff, shops, college campus with adult students that are out there, lounge areas in airports when everyone is waiting for their flights, inside the planes with the people next to you,… etc

People do approach anywhere as long as they are confident in themselves and have got the social skills.

Fair_Cryptographer76 · 2022-06-28T15:07:08+00:00

Shoot your shot always (respectfully)

Domestic_Buy · 2022-06-28T12:15:36+00:00

Your hobbies. Events. Concerts. Shows. Fairs. Festivals.

You’ll get suggestions like grocery stores malls and gyms and those are very particular as to not come off creepy which 90% of the time they are.

There’s not “a” place for you to approach that doesn’t involve you putting yourself out there and being around groups of people.

In fact you should work on being social before you engage with possible intimate conversations with people. Way more important than finding where if you don’t know how.

Domestic_Buy · 2022-06-28T15:38:57+00:00

The first thing you should do is make profiles on multiple dating platforms. Generate as many leads as possible then invite them directly to your place.

You should also be approaching women where ever you like. There’s an unlimited amount of women on the street everyday.

You don’t need to be a social butterfly to get results but you need the right mindset and massive action.

Chicagoj1563 · 2022-06-28T16:54:59+00:00

I have been told that going out and looking for something like this to happen is a bad strategy and it's best to wait and let those moments/opportunities come to you but idk I've been trying that strategy for over a decade with absolutely no luck.

Yep, you know this is bullshit. You have to make things happen otherwise you may be waiting forever.

So how do most people meet woman? Like I hate big groups of people (I just feel lost) so I generally stay away from bars or clubs. I have tried OLD in the past and it honestly just made me more depressed and anxious than anything else so I'm not too interested in trying that again tbh.

As you can probably guess, those are the two places people usually meet. OLD or bars.

So, you are saying you don't want to do either. Then, your going to have to take action outside of the norm. Your options are mostly going to be hobbies and other activities like concerts. You can also do daytime approach, but you need to be sure its for you. Its a challenging endeavor and not for everyone.

Title	Where is a good place for a guy to approach women?
Author	Broad-Literature-438
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Date	June 28, 2022 12:03 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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