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neighlo · 2022-06-27T10:45:07+00:00

If it was only 2 days after you talked then it isn't your fault really. She has issues. You could've said something like we've been only talking for 2 days and stuff if you really liked her to let her know your point of view, but she's obviously very easily attached and insecure. Or maybe her friend did a prank lol. Either way look for other girls maybe.

Sup3rHD · 2022-06-27T13:27:52+00:00

She is love bombing you, she wants you to chase. Ghost her or mirror her behavior

Live-Ad-6309 · 2022-06-27T11:15:34+00:00

She sounds crazy. I'd avoid her.

DestinyChitChat · 2022-06-27T14:47:20+00:00

A woman won't give up on a guy she thinks she hasn't won over. I think you're still good. Just go with the flow and continue to be non-chalant and non-reactive.

Once a woman 10 years older than me (with a career, home, car, everything while I was still living with my mom at 23yo) told me she missed me and I said "thanks" on purpose. She got so pissed at me and almost cut me off. But I didn't freak and kept my cool. She brought me lunch at my work the next day, apologized, and said she never felt like this for anyone before. Especially someone my age. This successful woman was affected by a poor kid.

The opposite of love is not hate, it's apathy. So it's better a woman be mad at you than not give a shit.

denis_x · 2022-06-27T10:42:10+00:00

who is she ? how long have you known her ? if she said she loves you and you barely know her then be cautious.

SnooPets1514 · 2022-06-27T11:28:59+00:00

I don't know, could she not have been saying 'I love you' as a joke/part of her banter? Maybe you made it weird by looking too into it/treating it seriously. Could you not have said something a bit cringe/goo-ey back just to gauge where the conversation was going to go?

I'm playing Devil's advocate, of course. Maybe she does love you, in which case, yeah that would be weird.

Uttzpretzels · 2022-06-27T12:15:41+00:00

Oh lord. Run

projecttmayhemm · 2022-06-27T14:51:38+00:00

Typical girls.

She is playing hard to get because of her friends' advice.

there's no such thing as "how do I get her to start texting back" because that's exactly what she wants.

she wants you to chase her in order to boost her ego.

you should just ignore her AND her messages for one week.

afterwards, you can answer them like nothing happened and if she asks why you did not answer, you can say "because you didnt respond".

make her follow your rules rather than you following her rules if she wants to be with you.

Majestic_Meal_5655 · 2022-06-27T14:57:50+00:00

She said she loved you in 2 days? Ruuuuuuuuuuuuuun!!!!!

jjboy91 · 2022-06-27T16:34:48+00:00

It's like that all the time, like you match, she says you're fun and all then you start talking a bit more and she becomes MIA lmao

It either means she's busier than the president or she has move towards a better match

After 2 days I unmatch and move on.

2022-06-27T16:59:37+00:00

First time?

inline6throwaway · 2022-06-27T22:02:40+00:00

Girls say all types of shit sometimes. Then they change their minds or their feelings change. It just happens sometimes. If this happens over and over then try and think if there is something that you're doing that might cause it. Don't ever come off as too eager or needy because that is a turn off. Sometimes you'll meet women who are genuine about what they say. Then other times they'll mean what they say but they won't act on it. Move on to the next.

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