Escalation Game Advice: Going to festival with this girl, she wanna keep her stuff at my place and have dinner before festival

life_long_learnerabc · 2022-06-18T10:06:46+00:00

very attractive + single mom = dangerous combination. That in all likelihood means, that a lot of guys have pump-and-dumped her. This altered her psyche and it will take time until she will show, how she really is. Maybe I'm wrong, I just want you to be careful and aware.

Treat her like you would treat one of your guy friends. Would you use a cab or public transport for them?
at the latest during the festival. Otherwise you risk seeming like a boring guy.
Don't plan it too much. Let it happen. Built up tension through your words and body language, that will finally release itself physically.
Be prepared to dance at the festival

mrblack-- · 2022-06-18T09:29:05+00:00

She’s using you dum dum

How does offering to use you place to hold her stuff mean you “played it cool”?

Tell her you can’t do “dinner” anymore She wants to eat for free🤦🏾‍♂️ who the fuck does DINNER before a festival you do predrinks to get drunk

And if she has to leave at 10, that means you have to leave at 10 so she can get her stuff before the festival is over and you’ll miss the last set, which is usually the headliner/ best set. Also leaving before it’s over means she’s not going to stay over at your house so, no sex. 🙃

Bro, cancel this whole thing and go to the festival to have fun and you meet her there! You’re not her fucking chaperone, her baby daddy can do that

life_long_learnerabc · 2022-06-18T08:35:28+00:00

Those 1-4 steps look to me like you are treating dating like a rocket science. Keep the touchy part slow, and look for how well she reciprocates. Though I don't know what works for single mom's, they are the biggest red flags.

Kennymacdougall · 2022-06-18T09:56:03+00:00

Stay away from her. She is using you.

Lighthero34 · 2022-06-18T12:11:46+00:00

Do what you went there to do. Take some of her photos then start talking to other women. Start socializing.

This takes her off a pedestal and if she really was interested or attracted to you she'll start trying to get your attention again even though you've already done what you came there to do.

Otherwise, you avoided being a simp.

focus_flow69 · 2022-06-18T16:10:16+00:00

Don't simp and put her on a pedestal. Dont be needy. I'm already getting these vibes from your post, just try your best to not do these things.

No dinner. Pregame drinks before.

Pregame is to establish rapport and comfort. Banter and joke around and talk about fun stuff.

At the festival, don't talk as much, focus on dancing and body language and eye contact and smiling. Music is too loud that talking is ineffective. If you must talk, speak directly into her ear, use your hand to cup so the sound travels better if you need to.

Be chill, escalate via dancing and touch at festival. Read dicarlo escalation ladder if you don't know how. Pick up on social cues to see how receptive she is to escalation. Escalate to a kiss if you can, if not just dance and enjoy and have a good time. If she rejects no big deal just carry on like nothing happened.

Protip at music festival (I go to a lot of festivals)

Dont be afraid move around the crowd a lot. Each time u move its a new environment, you are exploring and can reset the vibes. Any time you feel the vibes are off, just move aorund to another part of the stage. Tell her let's walk around, offer your hand out, palm up, look her in the eyes, smile, and she will give you her hand. Then lead her through the crowd slowly until you find a good spot. It's a huge confidence booster for u and makes girls moist as fuck because it displays confidence and leadership and shows you aren't scared.

When she comes to her stuff, say welcome to the after party, throw on some music and keep chilling. If she actually has to leave then she will let you know.

If it's just a bullshit thing, then tease her how it's early and try to keep teasing her to hang out. If everything else went right, you dance, touch and escalate in the privacy of your home to see where it goes. If she rejects you here or gets blunt about things here, just accept it and say no problem, I had a fun tonight, appreciate the free ticket and to get home safe. That's it.

Title	Escalation Game Advice: Going to festival with this girl, she wanna keep her stuff at my place and have dinner before festival
Author	life_long_learnerabc
Upvotes	1
Comments	31
Date	June 18, 2022 8:30 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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