Stats:

Age: 21

Race: African American

Height: 5'7

Profession: Videographer

Location: Modesto/Turlock

Time: 11:30pm - 2am

Preface:I learned about pick up when I was in high school and I really got into it to the point where I would be getting the girls I want but I got into a ltr for 3 years and feel back at square one so I’m getting back into it and would like to document my Journey. Feel free to give me feedback.

This post is going to cover two days. I went to cru in Turlock and palladium in Modesto

Sets:

5/27/22 Today is Friday and I went to the cru. I wasn’t really feeling it today but fuck it.

1st set: I approach a group of Latinas and open the one I thought was the cutest. She has very long hair so I opened with some along the lines of your hair nice and long so I had to meet you but it did not go as expected because I spooked her. Even though she was spooked I played it cool made a joke about it and played it off. We talked and danced alongside each other. Tried to physically escalate but she wasn’t with it. I also group managed well and they was liking me but the girl I liked didn’t want to escalate so I pulled off. Stayed in the set for about 10 min and honestly this set was a pain.

2nd set: I seen this cute girl walking so I put my hand out for her to grab which she did. I opened with a statement and she was receptive but I let her go away because I had bad proximity and didn’t try to correct it at all 🤦🏾‍♂️ so I let her walk away. So embarrassing

3rd set: seen this very cute girl walking and I instantly approached. I opened saying something bout her clothes but she was walking and it be really packed so it be hard to stick with the girl. So let that set go. Seen her around and she was receptive but didn’t approach again. I have to start approaching sets twice.

4th set: after these three sets I had a hard time keeping conversations going because I started to get real tired so I headed home.

Improvements: 1. I need to be more persistent. This means stop letting small problems fuck up your sets. 2. After a predetermined amount of sets stick to a girl. You are missing out because you aren’t sticking to these girls.

5/28/22 I went to the club called palladium in Modesto

1st set: I approach these two girls they both have curly hair and I went for the cuter one 20/30. I approach and my opener had her smiling. Then I ask for her name and she gives me it and I tell her mine then I think we exchanged a couple more sentences before she tells me she was being followed and I was like give me hugs and they both hugged me. I was like be safe. I seen these two girls again and pull up again. This time we are on the dance floor and I dance with them. That’s as far as I go with them because they was like in their own world. But the palladium weird because on the dance floor there would be girls twerking on each other then they would be surrounded by hella dudes watching them like wtf lol.

2nd set: I approach a three piece that’s was all dancing on each other and I open the closest one to me who was alright in terms of looks. she was kinda receptive but when I asked her to dance with me she was not with it and declined all further interactions 😵‍💫

I didn’t only do two sets today it was just 80% of my approaches today were instantly rejected and it wasn’t happening to me a lot of the dudes were getting instantly rejected. So I’m going to have to turn up and be different from other dudes. In all today my convos weren’t going anywhere I think I need a plan on where to lead the convo. Also I feel like I was asking too many questions. But these were my two days and feedback would be appreciated and I’ll be back next week. Also shout out @5__7pickup(hopefully I spelt your name right) you inspired me.