I'm deadass good looking. Even though I'm short (5'5) some girls even spit game with me, especially at work. At work, confidence is through the roof and my swag is insane. I'm no shy guy, but I have a nerdy background and upbringing I'm overcoming. Was not very cool in Highschool but my (M22) young single life is starting to bud now that I've been out of a relationship for a year now. Literally something about about the way I am or the way I talk is just a massive turn off. Voice is a little high and I notice I'm significantly more attractive when I'm sick or my voice is raspy so I'm gonna try something with that. I'm new to the Game, about two months ago I started going to clubs with my friend, and success has been pretty low, just not non-existent. I've gone 8 times to bars and clubs, home run with 1 and gotten a good thing going with 2 that for very wild 3rd party reasons did not end up in sex. The last two times were by myself and not my friend and one ended up with the near-miss. I feel like I can't approach well at all. Even if I start a conversation, which is rare, I can't maintain one. It's like I become socially inept when trying to pick up girls, which is such a massive contrast to my work persona which is brimming with confidence in group scenarios. But 1v1 with a girl somehow makes me regress into being a nerd unless I know her already and it's starting to drive me mad because it's hard to put a finger on what I'm doing wrong I just know I don't got Game rn. Any pointers? Tips on the approach? Stuff specific to Westerners in Japan is also helpful, as my Japanese is I say "Negative Game" because even when a girl is digging me purely on looks, a short talk will actually steer them away. I just get so awkward I don't get it.